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  1. Maybe she doesn't understand that an affair...

    Maybe she doesn't understand that an affair doesn't have to be physical...

    I think that the counseling suggestion is a good place to start.

    If that doesn't work, you may want to consult...
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    I've got to agree with the previous posts... ...

    I've got to agree with the previous posts...

    If he is indecisive (oh hell, even if he know what he wants), it is always important for you to stay focused on what you want.

    Don't ever let...
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    Here's the real deal, you're not bi-curious or...

    Here's the real deal, you're not bi-curious or bi-sexual... you're MARRIED!

    You gave up the right to individually satisfy your curiosities when you pledged yourself to another person.

    As...
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    There are several programs available but they...

    There are several programs available but they vary from state to state. A good place to start would be Planned Parenthood. They can offer a ton of support, assistance and direction.

    LBF
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    Forgive me for the assumption but my guess is...

    Forgive me for the assumption but my guess is that you are young. If I am correct about your age, guys want to hang out with their friends over their girlfriends because, you guessed it, they are...
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    Too bad there's so much focus on your male organ....

    Too bad there's so much focus on your male organ. Increasing the time for sex is not limited to penetration.

    How about focusing on foreplay? Have you considered "satisfying" your partner a...
  7. I agree with the opinion that she seems to be...

    I agree with the opinion that she seems to be into games (hopefully a dose of maturity will take care of that)

    Whether you choose to ignore her or keep it short and simple, just make sure to...
  8. Short and sweet... LET IT GO! Just the...

    Short and sweet... LET IT GO!

    Just the recap left me tired!

    While you're letting it go, don't forget to remind yourself that you deserve better!
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    I think that we are missing the point! If...

    I think that we are missing the point!

    If he could be the baby's father, then he should be the one fighting to determine paternity.

    I know that this is hard to hear but whether this baby...
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    Shouldn't your boyfriend be the one trying to...

    Shouldn't your boyfriend be the one trying to figure this out?
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    From the information that you provided, I don't...

    From the information that you provided, I don't think that she changed into another person when she moved in with you. You didn't have enough time to know each other in the first place. The person...
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    I do not know the legal answer to your question...

    I do not know the legal answer to your question but, for the sake of your child I would consider the consequences of not having the father listed on the birth certificate...

    Perhaps my answer is...
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    How old are you? I wish that my answer...

    How old are you?

    I wish that my answer hinged on your feelings but in some cases, age really does matter...
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    First of all, let's be clear, THIS PERSON IS NOT...

    First of all, let's be clear, THIS PERSON IS NOT YOUR FRIEND. When you use someone's credit card without permission, it is called STEALING!

    For God's sake, call your credit card company, let...
  15. I wouldn't recommend calling him. It is his...

    I wouldn't recommend calling him. It is his responsibility to fulfill his duties as a father, he shouldn't have to be reminded.

    Limit the toxic impact to your daughter's life... It is certainly...
  16. Every state is different... Get a lawyer!

    Every state is different... Get a lawyer!
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    You answered your own question with "I'm just not...

    You answered your own question with "I'm just not gonna reply..."

    If she really cared about you, you would be her boyfriend instead of her side dish.
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    I'm a bit confused... Why would you want to be...

    I'm a bit confused... Why would you want to be with a man (I use the term loosely) who does not want to be responsible for the life he created??

    The baby didn't ask to be conceived, why should...
  19. Complex situation... need more info. How old...

    Complex situation... need more info.

    How old is your daughter?
    I assume based on your post that the mother of the son is the "ex", is this correct?
    Are there any other children involved?
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    If the person you are with is not your husband,...

    If the person you are with is not your husband, do not encourage your daughter to call him dad.

    "Dad" signifies a sense of lifetime permanence. If you guys have not made this type of...
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    You are not being selfish and I don't think that...

    You are not being selfish and I don't think that this means that he doesn't like your company anymore (obviously just an assumption because I don't know him... )

    Every good marriage is about...
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    It is time for you to stop identifying yourself...

    It is time for you to stop identifying yourself as an ex-girlfriend and focus all of your attention on being a mom.

    Ask yourself what do you want to teach your son about what healthy/respectful...
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    When you married his father, you also married his...

    When you married his father, you also married his kids, including the ADHD.

    In addition to the medication and counseling, is there any behavior modification support? What type of support...
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    AZO is a commonly used brand.

    AZO is a commonly used brand.
  25. You are very welcome. Hang in there:)

    You are very welcome.

    Hang in there:)
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    A woman tells her girlfriend "Oh my God, I have...

    A woman tells her girlfriend "Oh my God, I have two kids and a new house and I just don't know how I'm going to make it!"

    The friend replies "Have you called your ex-boyfriends?"

    Here are the...
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    Are you sure that you are engaged? Do you have a...

    Are you sure that you are engaged? Do you have a wedding date?

    I agree with a previous post, marriage is all or nothing. If you are still considering what should be included in "all", we call...
  28. It is time for a fence. Not only does the mother...

    It is time for a fence. Not only does the mother not have any boundaries, social skills or respect for others, she seems like a People's Court lawsuit waiting to happen!

    I applaud your patience...
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    This situation looks like a tangled ball of yarn,...

    This situation looks like a tangled ball of yarn, you can either throw it away and start over or take the time to unravel it.

    In plain English, either move on or just call your ex and ask her...
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    Get some help!! Since you have already seen a...

    Get some help!! Since you have already seen a psychiatrist, you should share with him/her that your fantasies still exist. I'm thinking that a med eval is a bit in order, don't you?

    There is...
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    It's a hard place to be. These are the five...

    It's a hard place to be. These are the five stages of grief. There is no formula or timetable as to how long each stage lasts. It depends upon the person and the support system that they have...
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    Are you really wondering why he's coming back? ...

    Are you really wondering why he's coming back? Maybe it's because you are available. When you see a doormat, don't you instinctively wipe your feet on it?

    Take in the mat, close the door and...
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    Plant some seeds, add some water and grow some...

    Plant some seeds, add some water and grow some self-esteem!

    We teach other people how to treat us through our own behavior. Right now you're telling this guy that it is okay to keep you around...
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