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    Hi Lacey... Things are different with the...

    Hi Lacey... Things are different with the daughter and dad... he sat down with her and explained that she is no longer allowed to sleep in his room and that she's a big girl now and shouldn't be...
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    Thanks a bunch!

    Thanks a bunch!
  3. My 16-year-old slips once in a while, but knows...

    My 16-year-old slips once in a while, but knows better to try and use it all the time. I've unplugged and removed the computer; screen and all, for weeks. I've taken the sidekick away and whatever, ...
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    Thanks bush... it's sooo involved, I've already...

    Thanks bush... it's sooo involved, I've already swayed a few times from the initial question so I won't get into it,but thanks to you guys, I finally feel confident enough to move forward. I'm...
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    Hi guys, well I've decided I'm contacting an...

    Hi guys, well I've decided I'm contacting an attorney on Monday. I was given a number for a divorce attorney specializing in psychological disorders and specifically for those who display "the charm"...
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    I99... she no longer has a my space... but, it...

    I99... she no longer has a my space... but, it was a pretty advanced site with her giving the peace sign and sticking her tongue out (lazy tongue) and another having her head tilted to the side in a...
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    Yikes... I'm so sorry to hear your situation. ...

    Yikes... I'm so sorry to hear your situation. Can writing your thoughts down on paper help you any? Can going for a walk with headphones [of something up-beat and comfortable playing] make you feel...
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    This is why I came on this site... trying to get...

    This is why I came on this site... trying to get other's opinions and to show him that I'm [and others little comments] are not the only one's who think this is unnatural and unhealthy. In seeing...
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    I was involved with a church where I used to live...

    I was involved with a church where I used to live a few years ago... loved the pastor to no end, he's since retired and with all the goofy things going on in some of these churches, I'm a little...
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    Lacey you made a suggestion in reference to...

    Lacey you made a suggestion in reference to MADD... well in going through my notes and other articles I've saved... MADD was one of the groups that wrote some nasty things about my husband when he...
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    Thanks for that Talaniman!!

    Thanks for that Talaniman!!
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    Thanks bush... he starts preschool this year.

    Thanks bush... he starts preschool this year.
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    Bushg believe me when I say, he and I have had...

    Bushg believe me when I say, he and I have had some pretty nasty arguments over his drinking.. and the what ifs. He's gone from 3-4 times a week to maybe twice a week and I try to take the baby with...
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    Bushg... we don't get in the vehicle with him...

    Bushg... we don't get in the vehicle with him (unless I drive)... and my children are not allowed either, I would never forgive myself if something happened. It's generally when he's been at the...
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    should I go on another site and ask this question...

    should I go on another site and ask this question ... Does anybody know if it matters [when it comes to my boys] that he's had 4 DUI's, ...last one was in 02. He's still a drunken driver but has been...
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    you're a doll... I have saved the listings for...

    you're a doll... I have saved the listings for what it's worth. I'll ask family members when it's the final count down, I don't want them any more involved than I have to. The ex has a problem with...
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    I would really like to know how to go about...

    I would really like to know how to go about proving more of this... he's on guard now so nothing will transpire anytime soon... nonetheless, my biggest concern is with my 4 year old and he having to...
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    Wellllll, truth be known, the mother made an...

    Wellllll, truth be known, the mother made an accusation several years back about the daughter and father... we all laughed it off knowing she would say things just to say them, she brought it up in...
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    If my husband was a mature individual this would...

    If my husband was a mature individual this would all be great, however he has stated to her how much he loves her, my 4-year old and me just the same and she has to deal with that... however if he...
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    Do you think I would be hammered if I tried to...

    Do you think I would be hammered if I tried to sit down with the two of them... they are both very defensive people. She'll say, "OMG, whatever" when a subject comes up that she doesn't agree...
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    I would never try to take the daughter away from...

    I would never try to take the daughter away from her father or interfere in that bond. (until this) I did all I could for my husband for almost 2 years with reports and filings and investigating the...
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    Thanks a bunch Bushg... according to him...

    Thanks a bunch Bushg... according to him outsiders are jealous of him so they'll say outlandish things... My family or friends do not even know the half of it, I couldn't tell them everything, they...
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    Genders are both boys... my statement meant my...

    Genders are both boys... my statement meant my boys respect what I say, the 4 year old has some learning still, however my 16 year old is very well behaved
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    My 16 year old is a boy... who thinks the 12 year...

    My 16 year old is a boy... who thinks the 12 year old is a little too flirtatious and around he and his friends... but otherwise doesn't say a whole lot about the situation.
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    I think that's the problem... whenever she...

    I think that's the problem... whenever she notices my husband and I becoming affectionate she turns on the charm. If I'm even within ear sight, she'll run over to him and wrap her arms around his...
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    Yes Bushg... I think that's a yes...

    Yes Bushg... I think that's a yes...
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    She is shown a good amount of love at this...

    She is shown a good amount of love at this house... she just requires more. I give her compliments every time I see her, I try to joke with her, her father bakes cookies or watches movies with her,...
  28. Question: I need to talk

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    Well... I'm certainly not a psychic, however when...

    Well... I'm certainly not a psychic, however when I lost a dear friend of mine in a bad car accident, I would often just look up and talk, I would yell, I would cry and I would write letters, and in...
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    Silly as it sounds... do you speak with her? Do...

    Silly as it sounds... do you speak with her? Do you laugh about the fun things you used to do? Can you relate to the fun happy parts and try to skip over the sad parts? She would rather see you...
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    Hey Snap... Snap out of it! Do you work? If so,...

    Hey Snap... Snap out of it! Do you work? If so, do you have an opportunity to meet friends there? How about taking a stroll through the mall; certainly there are many people there in stores and...
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    Rank... I have expressed to her that her...

    Rank... I have expressed to her that her flirtatious ways around the boys could get her into trouble and that she doesn't want to have to live her life with "rumors" going around if she were to be...
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    Well s2tp you've done it again, I feel as if I'm...

    Well s2tp you've done it again, I feel as if I'm speaking with someone that knows a lot of what's happening here... thank you.

    I will admit there are days when I've finally become so frustrated I...
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    How enlightening to hear a different viewpoint...

    How enlightening to hear a different viewpoint s2tp... You hit on a lot of important points that make sense and I truly appreciate your input on this matter... and in answer to your questions,

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    Thanks beach... at this point, I'm not sure I...

    Thanks beach... at this point, I'm not sure I truly love my husband anymore... so many things are just not good and that's why I need to call someone today... thanks so much for your time
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    You have a valid true point here Bushg... my...

    You have a valid true point here Bushg... my husband always wants to look like he is Mr. wonderful and hasn't any problems and I hate to say it but he's a charmer in public but a screamer at home. In...
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    Bushg... those exact words came from a friend of...

    Bushg... those exact words came from a friend of mine too... I was told to take a picture of them sleeping and show it to dad as to how it looks but thought that was being a little out of line.
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    Oddly enough, the mother has sent her to seek...

    Oddly enough, the mother has sent her to seek counseling for what she stated, "she's having difficulty with the divorce" fact is, they divorced when she was only 13 months old, so obviously she has...
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    You are a dear... no, I do not care to be...

    You are a dear... no, I do not care to be screamed at, this is one of the issues I hate most. I honestly don't believe anything is going on with he and the daughter, it's just her behavior around...
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    [QUOTE=bushg]You need to sit down and be honest...

    [QUOTE=bushg]You need to sit down and be honest with yourself, Sit back and think about how he makes you feel, how does he treat the 4 year old and your 16 year old... I am assuming from a previous...
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    Vlee ... FYI... I haven't a jealous bone in my...

    Vlee ... FYI... I haven't a jealous bone in my body and those who know me are fully aware of this. I have friends that are beautiful models and I have no problem with them around my husband... the...
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    Thanks so much... you guys are really shedding...

    Thanks so much... you guys are really shedding the light I needed on this subject... thank you thank you.

    Beachgurl... I thought the same thing. I even brought it up that "your daughter acts as...
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    Thank you again for all this info... I really...

    Thank you again for all this info... I really need for dad to see this to shed some light on the situation, he thinks my family and friends and others mentioning her behavior have an ax to grind with...
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    Now thatz a great start!! Have a super day!!

    Now thatz a great start!!

    Have a super day!!
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    Morning Snap... hope you have a great day...

    Morning Snap... hope you have a great day today... breath in through the nose and out through the mouth... smile!! Work on all your negatives in your life while still doing all the positives that...
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    Snap, I was you... 10 years ago... however it...

    Snap, I was you... 10 years ago... however it takes you to make a difference. When everything around you seems like it's falling apart then YOU have to make a difference. I was prescribed all those...
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    Snappy... can u make a list? A list of likes and...

    Snappy... can u make a list? A list of likes and dislikes? It is sometimes easier when things are on paper/computer. Then take that list and make it a point to work on each one be it negative or...
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    Thank you Mishca... His daughter never wanted the...

    Thank you Mishca... His daughter never wanted the mom and dad to divorce as with most... He's pretty verbally abusive going nutz on the x-wife, me (of 7 years) and he's gone nuts on his daughter...
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    Wutz wrong dear..

    Wutz wrong dear..
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    12 year old daughter sleeps with Dad

    my 12 year old step-daughter won't sleep in her own room. I don't sleep in the same room as my husband due to his snoring. She's 5'8, a B cup bra, wears tight boy shorts and a v neck tight string...
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