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VERY LATEST UPDATE:

We went to family mediation on Friday and guess what? It went as smoothly as possible.

Curiously, there were no other issues other than defining how much and how often I...

Agreed Talaniman.

Blondie, you have yourself a man who seemingly loves you very much and shows you this through sending you and your daughter gifts. (Not that buying gifts is necessarily the best...

Wow, that's terrible that she isn't willing to be civil with you so that the both of you can have an amiable relationship with your son.

I didn't see this post when you first posted it but I...

That's not a can of worms I will open immediately Talaniman, as it's not the most pressing issue. It's irrelevant for the moment, and a slighlty arguably spurious reason to request the DNA. ...

Looking back at my state of mind in the archives of my old posts from last year just after I discovered she was pregnant.

A lot of sheer hope and desperation that things would improve.

Sadly...

I'm sure her behavior is no surprise to you at all. Look forward to a life time of it. She will never change.

But do consider there are possible future medical considerations to take into...

Hi Chery, thanks for writing again..

In England, once a person put shis name on a child's birth certificate, he automatically legally assumes 'parental responsibility.' No such declaration is...

Or 16 if you are in the UK. No need for an arbitrary age of 18 unless it is prohibited by law in your country's respective law.

I am already registered as the baby's father. So regardless of whether I am the true father or not I am classed as the legal father. Don't get me wrong though, I don't simply want to be a father...

Hey Sam antha, where you from?

Don't worry too much about what you have or haven't done so far. There's no rle saying you should have kissed a guy by now.

I'm free to date you! :)

Move in, my friend.

Grasp the new opportuntiy with an open mind and seek to have some fun and enjoyment.

Life is too short for waiting around for exes.

If you and the ex were ever going to...

This story just makes it seem even more weird the situation I find myself in.

Got girl pregnant in an OK long-ish term relationship. Dumped before I'm told she is pregnant. Then told she is...

I've already instructed a lawyer to act.

He has written letter (which may have reached her by now.)

In the letter, the lawyer told me that first-of-all he will ask her what th ebig issue is...

THERE has been a major change again; for the worse. :(


I last saw my son exactly one week ago. That evening baby's mum sent me a text message saying that we need to sort something out regular...

Hey guys: a further update,

Still things are going well, baby's Mum and I getting on civilly and well, treating EACH OTHER with respect and appreciation :)

Been seeing baby fairly regulary at...

Aww thanks. DO you reckon?

First thing the midwife said to me. He looks just like his daddy. All of her family and herself, they think that he looks just like me, and not even at all like her. ...

Equally, very nice names. Both rare and distinguished :)

Sure, ( I won't reveal either of our surnames for privacy however.)

His first name is Riley.

Thanks, I will always do my best and put him first in line of all my priorities.

Going to register him tomorrow. Hope all goes well. We did agree on having both our surnames. I just hope she...

Thank you, he is beautiful!

6lbs 13 1/2oz

http://i35.photobucket.com/albums/d172/Ross_Bradley/RILEYonfathersday2.jpg





http://i35.photobucket.com/albums/d172/Ross_Bradley/MeandRiley-Firstfeed.jpg

I got my very first father's day card yesterday too. That was a nice touch.

Seeing baby again tomorrow, I am very excited!

I guess the lesson to learn is that things can end up being a lot...

Never say never ;)

If it ever becomes what we both want, and can be truly a loving and healthy relationship then we can be together one day. (I'm just saying that I don't expect it and that it...

Hey all,

Just wanted to inform everybody that my baby son was born on Friday morning.

My ex-girlfriend called me in the early hours to ask me to be there (in hospital) and I went.

Seeing...

Talaniman,

I just want to put on record that I have not been talking to them whatsoever.

As my post states, she sent me an email, which I have not replied to at all. Rather I have kept it as...

I will go on record to say that this is the worst piece of advice I have ever heard from anybody, and is totally misguided and wrong on so many levels.

How can you suggest that I do not get in...

Hi,

I have a question re the surname of my baby-to-be, here in the UK.

My ex girlfriend dumped me last October, suddenly. 12 days later she informed me she was pregnant and keeping it. (She...

Further update, yesterday morning I received a message via Facebook from her older sister. I don't know why exactly I got the email at this particular moment in time, but it was in response to the...

Hi thanks for your reply :)


I do not know if she will make a good mother to this baby. Only time will tell, I cannot make a prediction, though it is fair to say she has been selfish by drinking...

I agree, fully.

But, when I propose taking this DNA test, which I am sure you agree is necessary just to be sure, I know the kind of reaction I will get.

And assuming it is mine, which may be...

Hi TJPlayer,

First of all thank you for replying and taking the time to offer your opinions and advice, I really appreciate other people giving me a perspective.

What is unescapable is the fact...

Hi everybody,

So, I am feeling incredibly despondent and depressed at the moment over the whole situation with my pregnant ex-girlfriend.

I have been brooding over a few things lately and the...

Talaniman,

I'm not EXPECTING anything from her.

What is troubling me is the possibility that she may want me back. She was not a horrible bi***h for the first 7 months that I met her. And she...

Time has not fully healed me, an I doubt whether it will.

I have become stronger and gained a more detached perspective of the situation, but the fact that my ex is carrying my baby (and due to...

It's been quite a while since I have posted anything here. Many of you will be aware of the history of me and the pregnant ex girlfriend.

Here's an update to the situation:

Generally things...

It is technically called 'Association Football' though, in every country's respective FA.

Soccer is a nickname derived from the soc in association (football).

The perception of the 'world' series is something of a misnomer though.

The series was named after a newspaper called 'The World' and this is what it pertains to; not the entire world.

Hi, for those familiar with my story you may be more able to explain this:


I had been doing reasonably well with the no-contact thing but a few weeks ago regressed. She had texted me about...

The pyscho:

It started as a good person to talk to, fun to be around and great sex. Then it gets more serious. She keeps it secret for a while. Then when she decides it's time to tell...

Put it this way: here's my situtuation.

My ex cheated on me in July while I was in hospital having had a serious sports accident.

I forgave her a little to readily. But it ate me up inside;...

A further update. Today she sent me a text message asking '"wot is it i have done to piss u off?"


I don't know why she thinks she's pissed me off. I have just decided to avoid her, as advised...

Thanks, I'll keep you updated.

Hopefully wth time, she will managed to realise she cannot control me anymore and that it's in all our best interests to be friendly for the sake of the child.
...

I have followed the advice of Talaniman: A further update:

Last night I was at my friend's house playing Poker (I won too!), and was having a drink with everybody. At round 11pm, predictably the...

She is definitely pregant; I have been to the 12 week scan.
Today is the 20 week one. I'm not going though as she wants her Mom there instead. I've asked for a picture.

I know I'm letting her...

Hey all; most of you are probably familiar with my sordid story with the pregnant ex girlfriend.


So, I've been thinking: I know these are things that have been suggested to me before but ah...

She is adamant I don't come near her? YET, she appears at every party I attend, and asks me if I'm coming to the pub where she is. Something is anomalous here.

Her behaviour is 'nutty' as you say...

It's getting worse and more bizarre.

I know the whole NC thing with an ex is important, but in my circumstances I cannot just do that- as much as I would like to. For she is pregnant so I have to...

Wow, that is an awesome story. I would love to have the opportunity to get back with my pregnant ex. I am taking things quite well, and had similar realisations that certain aspects of my behaviour...

Definitely pregnant. I've been to the scan!

HER loss, then.