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You it does. But I don't know we've hung out before and he always talks about his shyness and lack of confidence, so I don't know. Would that stop him from saying something? Or do I just need to get...

So you are saying that if he did like me he would have already done something about it? I guess I'm just fun to flirt with. It makes it really hard to get over the crush if he keeps on being this way...

Yeah I'm 26. The funny thing is that when I throw paper back at him he says I'm childish and need to grow up but then he does the same thing and says how he is a mature adult. Its kind of funny. But...

Haha well he probably is immature but he is 29 so not exactly young though.

Hey talaniman! How are you :) well the good thing about having a crush on this guy for the last 8 months is that I am totally over my ex. The bad thing is that I can't stop thinking about him! And...

How can I let him know that I like him without being too forward? What should I do? I don't really want to tell him straight out either. But I mean he kind of has to know, I mean I'm always...

So I've known this guy for almost 8 months. I have a huge crush on him, I mean I get the butterflies and get all nervous and all that stuff whenever he is around. I have a feeling that he might like...

Well I think I just have to get over it... because I saw him today and he acted like a total jerk... at first he was really nice to me, asking how my week was and how life was and things like that...

I don't know. I mean to me he is really good looking, and smart and we have good conversations... but all my friends seem to think that he is goofy looking and I'm out of his league... but I really...

Yeah. It all didn't make sense to me either. But if he is dating people that's cool. I think that's what I'm going to start doing myself, I'm defintly not going to sit around and wait for him. But I...

You could be right... but too me it doesn't make sense to mention that he is going on all these dates if he was really interested in me... either way I think its best if I just let it go... he must...

Well, he is pretty shy. I mean the first few weeks after I met him, he barely talked. He would always hang out by me and talk to everyone else around me but wouldn't talk to me unless I asked him a...

Hey there. You're a pretty wise man for only being 15;)
The thing that confuses me about him, is that a few weeks ago, he was all telling me how he has no self confidence and how he is this huge...

Well I don't know how I'd be scaring him away. I mean he does all the flirting, I just respond to him, he's always teasing me about the guys I like, about movies I like, basically everything. I try...

OK. So I think I got my answer today... I saw the guy today. We work for the same company but at like totally different branches so we don't actually work together or anything, but anyway there was...

How much more aggressive can I get?:confused: I'm always talking to him, complimenting him, asking him questions, I even hugged him a couple of times... well actually he hugged me first, then I...

Hey guys! Thanks for the advice. I think it is a good idea to take things slow, get to know him and stuff. I haven't seen him since I asked him to hang out but he did write me a message on myspace,...

Yeah, well I mean I just have to wait and see how he acts the next time I see him, which will probably be this weekend sometime. If he acts different and avoids me then I guess he is not interested....

Any other advice on this? Thanks in advance.

Haha. I wish I could just jump on him, that be nice.;) I don't know about me being the hot one, I think I'm just nice so guys aren't afraid to approach me, well some of them obviously still are......

So what about that whole thing that if he doesn't call or contact you then he is just not that into you? And I mean I made the first move in asking him, so he really has nothing to be afraid of as...

Aww thanks for you advice. You're great:) . Well I don't know, all my friends seem to think that I'm out of his league, but I think he is out of mine... oh well... funny thing is that I'm being...

Yeah I kind of thought that the fact that he didn't say one way or the other was kind of weird too. He kind of just mumbled something like I'm going to be busy for a while but ill let you know... but...

Haha:D yeah I mean he HAS to know that I like him, and I knew that he is shy and that if I didn't ask him, he probably never would, but now I wish I hadn't asked him. Maybe he just needed more time...

That's true, I should have done that in the first place. I just don't know if I'm going to have the courage to ask him again... but if he is shy and I asked him to hang out, why would he still be...

I just think I might feel weird around him next time I see him. I haven't seen him since I've asked to hang out so I don't really know how to act. I've never actually had the guts to ask a guy out,...

So I've known this guy for about six weeks. I thought he was cute but thought he was out of my league, so I didn't really think anything of it. Then one of my really good guy friends told me that he...

Anyone else have any advice? Id really appreciate it.

Sounds exactly like my story. Same thing, we were together for 18 months, living together, he told me I was the one, I was ready to marry him and then one day out of nowhere he decides to break up...

Its been almost two months, since my boyfriend broke up with me out of nowhere. Well today I went back to our place for the first time in a long time to pick up the rest of my stuff. He was supposed...

Hey groovygal!
Thank you so much for the advice. I'm so confused and torn about this whole thing.I mean I don't even know what his intentions are, maybe he just wants to be friends and has no...

Yeah you are totally right. I'm not going to get my hopes up and I'm not going to do anything different. I'm going to continue to try to move on, he already knows that I cannot just be his friend...

Well speaking of my ex. He called me today. About 3 times. I finally picked up the phone to see what he wanted. We ended up talking for about an hour and it was really really nice. He told me that he...

My ex is definitely about games. When he broke up with me he told me that we can still be friends and hang out and just because he feels like this now he might feel different in a few weeks and he...

Yup. Mine did the same thing. He broke up with me, told me he wanted to be single, that there wouldn't be anyone in his life for a long time blah blah blah, then literrally two days later he is...

Yeah you guys are right. I think I'm just going to tell him to leave me alone. This is so hard.:(

OK. HE KEEPS ON CALLING! Today I hung out with his best friend, who also happens to be a good friend of mine, so while we were at the movies, my ex calls and wants to know how come I didn't invite...

Hey guys. So its been about 6 weeks since my boyfriend broke up with me. I've been feeling a lot better lately and I even went out with a guy from work a couple of times. The thing is that I know I'm...

Yeah you're probably. He is also your age, 28. And he really seemed like he wanted to settle down and get married and stuff and then out of nowhere he broke up with me. The girl that he was seeing...

So I posted a couple of weeks ago about my boyfriend of 18 months breaking up with me because he was confused/needed time, which turned out to be that he was seeing some other girl he met at work....

Thank you so much for the advice :) I just ate some ice cream and feel better for now. Maybe ill actually get some sleep tonight. I know I'll be OK, just takes times.

Yeah. I know. Part of me really wants to move on, because I realize what he is doing is bs and not good for me at all. And I realize that if he really loved me he wouldn't do this, but part of me...

Well it was a break up. But he said that he wasn't sure what he wanted. He said that I become comfortable and complacent and that I wasn't the same person that he fell in love with. So basically he...

So there is no reason for me at all to think that he'll change his mind and realize that he made a mistake? I should just totally move on 100 percent?

Thanks for the advice kae. Yeah you're right, time will make everything better... but what if he is just in a rebound relationship himself? He told me that its his way of coping with this. Maybe...

Its been a month and one day since my boyfriend of 18 months broke up with me, pretty much out of the blue, and started seeing someone else. I've done the no contact thing for the most part, I've...

Broken up with someone they loved and then got back together and things worked out? I'm just wondering if this is possible.

Yeah. I mean I want to move on. But I love him so much. I really thought he was the one for me and I know he felt like that too at one point, even more so then me... is it possible for him to really...

Anyone have any advice for me? Please.

I just really don't understand anything anymore. I mean for 18 months he was really the perfect boyfriend, he was and is everything that I wanted in a guy. I was sure that I was going to marry him...