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    kctiger Posts: 3,653, Reputation: 1319
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    #41

    Apr 6, 2009, 10:25 AM

    Advice works with what information we have. I didn't really contribute to his question, but we can only give advice on what is told to us, with OUR best intentions at heart. Now that you have brought more clear information to the table, obviously something's change...

    If he wants to be a liar and not share the entire story, then that is his problem, and not the people who took time out of their day to offer help.

    Best of luck to you!
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    #42

    Apr 6, 2009, 10:33 AM

    I thought that after I posted it. You can only work with what you have. I was just quite upset to read such things about me written by strangers as I would imagine anyone would be. But yes its just his way and probably why he did it.
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    #43

    Apr 6, 2009, 10:43 AM

    Sorry Shyly but when people post on her you only see their side of the story because they are telling it.

    However, now I think Craigz is crazy and deranged. Why in the world would he send it your boyfriend, as evidence?

    I hope you stop sleeping with him and stop cheating on your boyfriend if you is.

    And Craigz was the one that painted the picture of you being a drunk, unstable, and a cheater not us, we just made comments on what he wrote.
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    #44

    Apr 6, 2009, 10:45 AM

    I'm glad you realized it shyly, we can only go by what we have been told. Had you signed on here and told us your story, the advice would have been different of course. But he made himself look like the perfect gentleman, only you know his true colors and realize now that he was using this site as a pawn to break you and your boyfriend up.
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    #45

    Apr 6, 2009, 10:48 AM

    Yes, I agree. And I think this guy is coo-coo.
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    #46

    Apr 6, 2009, 11:00 AM

    shyly I know how it feels to find all this out...

    But dear I and all others who posted here did not know your side of story, we judged you on whatever was given to us

    Extremely sorry if any of my posts have hurt you
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    #47

    Apr 6, 2009, 12:09 PM

    Its OK, R-J-SInLove, and liz28, and everyone else. I know it was based only on the information you had. I was just feeling really upset reading it because it shocked me so much to see comments made about me but that's what he wanted I think. If I didn't know craig, I would have probably have given the same advice myself. I don't even know why I feel the need to explain myself to people I don't know. It just felt so wrong I had to have my say too, and if people think I'm a bad person so be it but at least I had a chance to tell my side somewhat.
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    #48

    Apr 6, 2009, 12:14 PM

    Also for the record, I have stated time and time again that I am NOT moving anywhere and that you can have as much contact as you want with our son. So WHY?? Do you continue this??
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    #49

    Apr 6, 2009, 12:58 PM

    In the best interest of your child you two would benefit greatly by getting therapy together.You need to establish ground rules that will insure the best possible outcome for your son.
    You will have to communicate for many more years and you need to learn how to do so effectively.
    You share a common goal,the health and well being of your son.
    Put your differences aside and concentrate of that shared goal.
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    #50

    Apr 6, 2009, 01:25 PM
    I have tried tried tried!! I even am a qualified counsellor! And while I studied he constantly accused me of having an affair with my gay fellow student!! Oh the memorires are precious!! and I asked him to go to relate when we were together but he said he was sleeping!! This is why its probably so stupid to me, hearing people who don't know me recommending I get counselling!! Ffs!!
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    #51

    Apr 6, 2009, 11:44 PM

    Hey Shyly you are a counselor!! Then could you please help me out with this little problem that I've got with my boyfriend??
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    #52

    Apr 7, 2009, 07:49 PM

    As I said earlier....NO ONE is a saint in this matter from all appearances.

    My advice to you: Go to a chemical treatment center TOMORROW.

    My advice to him: Settle it in court - Not online.
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