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Aug 2, 2009, 06:31 AM
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Most of the time I believe that. (I dumped him) but there are so many good memories.
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Aug 2, 2009, 08:41 AM
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Re NC
Threads merged.
Hi.not so much a question but a reflection. I left my partner of two years a couple of weeks ago-his mother runs his life and I couldn't take it anymore. Two days later I rang him thinking we could at least talk and find out if there was a chance of sorting it out. He yelled at me not to argue with him and not to contact him. So I haven't and here I am with my pain and sorrow and my memories of the good times. But-I m not contacting him-so I was doing NC BEFORE I knew what it was!
Thanks to everyone for your help.
Monica
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Aug 2, 2009, 08:52 AM
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I hope you take the time to read the stickies at the beginning of this forum. There are a lot of good suggestions, and insights, to help you heal, and move beyond your hurt, and pain.
There is a link below, in my signature.
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Aug 2, 2009, 08:53 AM
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Good for you.
Of course there are going to be painful times but you have to look forward to a better future without him.
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Aug 2, 2009, 09:39 AM
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Thanks again!stickies are very helpful.
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Aug 3, 2009, 04:49 AM
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Was doing so well and suddenly fell crashed again when my radio station played two of our songs in a row.hit off button but sad again. N C
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Aug 3, 2009, 07:08 AM
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Dontcha just hate it, when your up one minute, and down the next? Trust me, that's normal for us emotional human types.
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Aug 3, 2009, 07:32 AM
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You made me smile! Thank you.will stick to classic fm for music for a bit.:-).
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Aug 4, 2009, 03:27 AM
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I'm doing the nc I'm trying to keep busy but my head and my heart are out of sync here.
I dislike all the unasked for memories that flood my mind.
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Aug 9, 2009, 01:53 AM
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Update. 4 weeks or so into N C and not really counting the days.coping mostly and trying to make new friends.aware of all the things that were wrong and the few that were right.have had a number of hang ups from number withheld but not answered the phone.trying to work through what I need to change in order to allow myself a healthy relationship.and there s loads! Been on this great website a lot and read many of your stories-a great help.
All my best wishes to you all.
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Aug 9, 2009, 07:43 AM
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You have done well so far, just stick to it. I can tell by your other posts, you have learned much, and admire that your willing to pass it on to others. That's truly the healing path, in my book.
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Aug 9, 2009, 07:58 AM
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Thank you very much.its kind of you-and I'm sticking with both the N C and my trying to help others-its good to give.
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Aug 10, 2009, 06:40 AM
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A word of advice. Since this morning I ve had at least ten hang up calls from a withheld number.since I don't think that was anybody trying to sell me double glazing-yes this is ENGLAND- I ve changed my numbers.
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Aug 12, 2009, 11:04 PM
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I think your doing real well Monica and giving some great advice on this site.
Have a look at this site and let me know if you'd be interested in reading it and I can arrange to have a copy emailed to you...
Who Moved My Cheese?
It's a quaint little book but with a very powerful message which I think might help you.
Good Luck
M
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Aug 12, 2009, 11:13 PM
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M thanks! What a great start to my day getting your message. Yes please would love the book. I'm doing rather well and don't even miss the ex that much-in fact relief is my current state of mind. All the best. Thanks again. Monica
Email address was deleted for your own safety, and should never be given out on a public forum, such as this. Use The PM system for privacy.
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Aug 12, 2009, 11:30 PM
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Ok all sent , let me know if you don't get it :)
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