Nobody forgets about anyone. Unfortunately human nature does not allow us to. However we can choose to move on with our lives and concentrate on the things we like doing and planning nice things to do. That helps us to in a way to move on from our past.

Don't know how old she is but she obviously likes the attention from other guys, like flirting etc. An ego burst perhaps, maybe it's a sign of her insecurities like she needs the attention to make herself feel better about herself. As she gets older this will probably go. She probably wants a rebound also as she misses your support and wants it back...

Anyway NC for now work on yourself.

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Nobody forgets about anyone. Unfortunately human nature does not allow us to. However we can choose to move on with our lives and concentrate on the things we like doing and planning nice things to do. That helps us to in a way to move on from our past.

Don't know how old she is but she obviously likes the attention from other guys, like flirting etc. An ego burst perhaps, maybe its a sign of her insecurities like she needs the attention to make herself feel better about herself. As she gets older this will probably go. She probably wants a rebound also as she misses your support and wants it back....

Anyway NC for now work on yourself.

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She is 21 and can get any guy. I was only seeing her for a few months, its not me she misses. She did email me 2 weeks ago saying she missed talking to me but that is her trying to be friends again and there is no point. In my opinion she wasn't over her ex, there is nothing good in this for me yet I find myself holding onto something that would only hurt me and leave me confused all the time.

I think my problem is my ego has been dented and I haven't took the rejection well, every time I see her I fancy her physically,also any other girl I meet I find myself comparing to her and nothing beats her

Why the hell are you seeing her? There are other women who are sexy to! I saw my ex the other night and she was absolutely stunning to me that is. Not to my friends. Yeh its hard but try not to get to into it. The more time goes and the more you do with your life you will start finding you have many more good memories you remember with new people in your life than ytour ex

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Why the hell are you seeing her? There are other women who are sexy to! I saw my ex the other night and she was absolutely stunning to me that is. Not to my friends. Yeh its hard but try not to get to into it. The more time goes and the more you do with your life you will start finding you have many more good memories you remember with new people in your life than ytour ex

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Im not seeing her anymore, I may occasionaly bump in2 her if I'm out, I be polite but it hurts like hell. Yeah there are many sexy women out there, I've just never been so attracted in all my life the way I was with this one. I'm 26 and have met plenty of women. She seems like a player and I trusted her and believed her that she like me a lot, it takes a lot for me to trust a girl and after a break from my previous relationship, this girl I tought would make me feel good again, how wrong was I!!

Don't fret my friend. Hah my rents didn't meet till 30. Also my cousin split from his girl when she was 18 he was 21 (they had been together for a few years) anyway four years they saw each other and got back together and have been with each for 10 years now. So ;P W/E Just move on with your life and you don't know what will happen.

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Don't fret my friend. Hah my rents didn't meet till 30. Also my cousin split from his girl when she was 18 he was 21 (they had been together for a few years) anyway four years they saw each other and got back together and have been with each for 10 years now. So ;P W/E Just move on with your life and you don't no what will happen.

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I blame myself, she said I scared her a little and what I think she meant was I was too full on which I feel I was, I went about it all wrong and I'm kicking myself. This is why I'm finding it hard to let go. People say this is a learning curve not to do it again which is true, but its frustrating that I can't let her see that I can be different and not so full on, I made a mistake and showed how much I liked her too soon.

I just wasn't my relaxed self and just rushed things, so silly and something I regret so much.

What's done is done, face reality and get some things you enjoy doing. Plan some trips away, go to live music, have a good life, you can't be miserable for ever! If you hold on you will be. Once you get yourself sorted she may see a new side to u!