Hi everyone,
From my previous thread, all that is now sorted so thanks very much for everyone's advice! =D
But now, need to delve into a whole other issue...
About 8 months ago, my boyfriend asked me if I knew any free download sites for music, and I suggested Imesh, as I have been a member on there for a few years now. So anyway he downloads it, and about 5 months ago, I was at his house on his laptop, got bored and decided to download some music. I asked him for his password when the login thing came up, he said he couldn't remember it, so I thought nothing of it and just logged into mine.
After getting a few songs, I searched for him on the community page to add him as a friend, he came up on the search and I said to him 'you've got a friend request when you sort your password out', and he replied 'what? Are you on my profile?' getting all hot under the collar...
anyway, from his reaction I knew something was up, so when he was busy on the Xbox again, I had a look at the history, to find that he had been looking at half naked (to put it nicely) girls! I decided to do some digging, and also found pictured on his laptop that he had saved from Imesh of topless ladies.
After this discovery, I went ballistic! Can you blame me? He promised not to go on it again after realizing how hurt I was etc. etc. to cut a long story short, I was on my Imesh in march on my own laptop, and I noticed that he still hadn't accepted me as a friend, but he had changed his profile picture (I couldn't see anything else on his profile as it was privatized) so I thought this was strange and did some more digging.
After a few attempts, I guessed his password, to find 50 friends, all girls! I confronted him again, but not letting him know I knew his password. He again promised to stop, and when I asked him what he talks about, he said 'nothing much, just general chatting', then I asked him why, he said 'because I get bored'
Do I believe him? 3 days ago a girl posted on his wall 'oiiii fittaaaaaay' so I looked on her profile, and on one of her status, she wrote 'I'm bored' to which my boyfriend replied 'I'm back :)' back from where? And I also noticed he accepted a friend request 4 weeks ago, which suggests he has been on it AGAIN!
How do I stop this? Do I just full on confront him? Assume it's all innocent like he says? I've found no evidence that he talks dirty to these girls...
Thanks again in advance =)