We have liked each other for a couple years but never knew about the mutual affection, we thought it was one way. Then, when I was dating someone else she admitted that she liked me and I admitted that I used to like her. After a bad break up with that other girl, I told the first one that I still liked her and that she liked me. I had my chance to date her and I said no because of what just happened with the other relationship. I am now over it but now she has a boyfriend. The other day my good friend told me I should go for her because he could tell that we liked each other by just looking at us (I never told him that I liked her). I just don't know if I should go after her and make her happier with me than her current boyfriend in order for her to date me. What should I do?

You leave her alone. You respect her relationship she is in and back off. When she confessed she liked you she didn't push it because you were in a relationship. Now its your turn. You sit and wait if that's what you want. As you mention you can go after her and make her happier then her current boyfriend, well don't. There are no promises you can make her happier. How do you know she isn't happy? How do you know it would even work out? Leave them alone and find your own single girl.

You leave her alone and do nothing. Then neither of you has to be a dirty, lying cheater and go behind anyone's back in betrayal. That's what you do.

Doesn't sound like this girl was your #1, just there when things didn't work out. Now you want her. Foolish.

Figure out what kind of girl you want, and in the meantime, something about how you go about it.

You want to play games?

Or be honest? Your choice.

Go after her I am currently in the same situation but I was never in a relationship that I had to reject her... she told me a couple times she really likes me and I make her happy but I think I have the same problem as you... but you should do what I'm doing go after her if you think you can make her happier than what she is now then go for it YOUR LIFE EQUALS YOUR DECISION!!