The thing is she ask me to prove to her that I love her but then she told me that she doesn't want me to take her out on a date or a candle light dinner but somehow she wants me to prove my love to her and I didn't know who to prove it to her.. please help me because I won't be seeing her in another 3moths because I'm going to study in another place.. I need your help.. thanks

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Abram

Some a little over-the-top ways are:

Getting a tattoo with her name (that might hurt)

Asking to marry her (this might hurt too, if you guys are no where near a proposal)

Go outside and scream to the top of you lungs " I LOVE ????" (the key to that is to make sure people are outside and she's there so she can feel pleasantly embarrassed... if there's such a thing)

You can go to the store to buy her feminine products... (if that's not love, then I don't know what is)

Some not-so-painful options are:

Write her a semi-lengthy poem (doesn't have to rhyme). Make sure to mention all of the little things that you love about her, whether its how she smiles, her scent, etc. and what those things do to you. Be very specific and be real with it, a woman can feel when you're not sincere. Or better yet, call her mom or dad. Explain the situation and read them a different version of the poem (don't want to be too graphic). Them have them call her to say "Don't you know that boy really loves you"? Woman almost always listen to their parents.

Call the radio and make a song request in dedication of her. This is the alternative to screaming at the top of your lungs to let the whole neighborhood know. Why not let the whole city in on it.

That's all I can come up with right now. If you need more let me know.

Proof of love is something that happens over time. I like the shouting " I LOVE YOU" in public for a quick shot event.

hello. Rite try this its what I did... get a camera and go take pictures of the places where the two of you did significant things i.e where you first talked, first went on a date, first kissed etc, write a note with each pic saying why its important to you and why you cherish it as a memory. First send her a photo albut, followed by a rose, and an envelope with the picture and note inside. Send her a rose and envelope each day.. I only took seven so ot lasted a week. Its just to show that you value all the two of you have done and that the memories you have of being with her are very important to you and say that you want to have many more with her. But at the end of the day, you can just look in her eyes and tell her you do, if she don't believe you its her lookout. Good luck son.

My take on this is, if you have to prove you love her, is this the right girl for you? Love comes the heart. Love is visible in your words, actions, deeds. If she cannot see that, and you are sure you honestly love her and have told her... then I do not see how anything more will do anything more than what is already done.

Tell her that your proof is in your actions and wordw and if she can accept those she can acept your love.

[QUOTE=finessed1]Some a little over-the-top ways are:

Brilliant answer... just want to add getting a plane with a banner saying I love you
Singing naked outsider her bedroom window

Lol think outside the box be creative but not mushy

Heyy Man, first things first. You have to love yourself before you can love her. If you don't love yourself , then how can you love her ? You can`t give away something you don`t have, or in this case you can`t love her if you don`t love yourself. However that's not the case, but what I'm tryna say is. Treat her as if you were treating yourself . Love her as if you were loving yourself . Think of ways or things you do that makes you know you love yourself ? Do it to her or things similar . But you also have to remember to give it time, sometimes that's all it needs . =)
another thing is , if you say you love her and expect something back from her then its not love (that`s what I think). I mean you can`t expect her to feel the same way because you do, just love her still even if she don`t. Love her without the conditions, meaning don`t love her for the reasons you like her, instead love her for 'Her'... and your love however, it must be absolute.! Because the one thing love never is never was and never will be is 'Unsure' =)