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    Witchywoman1212 Posts: 50, Reputation: 1
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    #81

    May 28, 2008, 01:07 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by rol
    <<It's their fault because every last one of them deep down are mean and controlling and if we let them get to us then we have screwed up. They will mess you up real bad if you let them>>

    hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!! i certainly am not!!!!!

    Okay role, read my post and tell me if its just women, men can be so cruel too! They'll cling to you when they have no one and soon as they meet someone else they think is better,they leave you I the dust! Cold and heartless! Oops I sound negative now!
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    #82

    Jun 8, 2008, 07:15 AM
    OK so how do I get my ex to miss me, when I am currently going through nc and we don't see each other around anymore. Surely by me initiating conact breaks nc, takes me steps back and just makes me look like I'm pushing for something again. She saw me on Friday and I was very aloof, didn't even speak to her, in fat I wa sto busy chating other girls and friends, but how do I get her to miss me. There's a film out atm which I know she'd love, its an independent film which not many people would havbe heard of, but I'm sure she wudve seen it advertised and though about seeing it... maybe even with me. Should I tetx he rin the week and say saw a film you might like. Or not?
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    #83

    Aug 5, 2008, 10:11 AM
    I thought I would bring this post back up again as I am in the same boat. I am trying to stay completely out of contact with her but it has only been 2 days and she has sent me a message asking if I am OK. I do not want to ignore her as that makes me seem a jerk. What should I do?
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    Aug 5, 2008, 10:29 AM
    If you don't want to come across as a jerk then let her know that your planning on going down the no contact route, I think this is the best way forward. You'll both have the time and space needed to really think about things properly. If I can give you any advice - DO NOT HOUND HER.

    Good luck
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    #85

    Aug 5, 2008, 11:54 AM
    I've had to block her from my Facebook because I keep talking to her and we keept getting along. She understands this. I really love her and really miss her and know this is best for us both.
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