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    Kangaroo3739 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 3, 2011, 01:12 PM
    My guy friend has a girlfriend, but I like him, and he likes me.
    Hi! My best guy friend is dating my best friend, but he is only dating her because he feels bad for her. And, we both really like each other. I don't want him to break up with my best friend, and then date me, because she will be so mad at us both. He's told me that he loves me, and I feel the same, but I don't want to ruin the friendship between me, and my best friend. So I guess my question is, should I tell her that me and him like each other and want to date... or keep it a secret?

    Thanks in advance!
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    Aug 3, 2011, 02:39 PM

    I think your friend needs to know how lousy her friend and boyfriend really are. I also think its stupid, and dishonest to go behind a friends back, and mess with her boyfriend, or even not tell your friend that her boyfriend is cheating on her. What's so bad, YOU allow this kind of behavior, by going along with it.

    Yes tell her, because you are no friend, and with friends like you... who needs enemies. How old are you 12??




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    Aug 3, 2011, 02:45 PM

    His girlfriend is your befriend, wow. Then he confines in you that is only with her because he feels bad for her,wow. But loves you, double wow.

    Now you want to know if you should tell her or continue keeping this a secret? Really! Are the two of you considering have a secret relationship while he is in one with your best friend? I think both of you, especially you, needs to come clean because both of you are betraying her. Now after the two of you come clean I don't know if she might still remind your friend but remember what is done in the dark shall come to light.

    Also, I don't know how you can do what you do and still smile her face.
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    Aug 3, 2011, 09:26 PM
    I understand how you feel, that same situation happened to me a year ago. Your in a tough spot. It depends how close you two are as friends. But you must understand that if you do date her boyfriend she will remember to never trust you again. I believe friendships last a lot longer than boyfriend/girlfriend type of relationships. If you respect your friend, than you should not pursue. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

    -Jenny
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    Nov 7, 2011, 12:07 PM
    He need to end the currently relationship before come to you if he feel he don't want to continue, just let she knows, it may easier to accept more than find out that both of you betraying her, even just betraying her by the sign ''eyes to eyes'' for now, lol. What a shame while your best friends is innocent and don't know what happening between her best friend and her boyfriend?

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