My girlfriend told me to leave her alone and I can't stop thinking about her
Ok here's my story, I haven't heard from my girlfriend in over a week, I've text and left messages in fb and msn no word, I called her up and her cousin answer and hang up on on me. Later on I found out she was sick, I got really worried as I really don't know what is wrong with her and her family members won't tell me. So I got no choice but wait after two weeks no reply I got fed up and jump to a conclusion she was avoiding so I email her and told her I'll say away from her and then she reply by how she was waiting for me to get online and that how sorry she was but she was sick and tired of me jumping to conclusion and told me she gave up and do not contact her again. I was online never saw her online once, I was gutted to see those words of do not contact her again, I got desperate and try to add her back in fb and get her to talk to me, I pretty much got a point where I turned into a stalking her. A week later I tried contacting her again but it was futile I guess I realize it. So I stop contacting her block her fb page, and sent her a note to remove my friends request in fb as I can't remove it and I was getting an error message all the time. Its been hard I'm trying everything to forget her and stop thinking about her but I couldn't somehow thing will remind me of her. I'm so heart broken she was the first girlfriend I ever had and I really did fell in love with her. I guess I just want to know do I keep hoping she will come around or that she really doesn't want anything to do with me anymore? Should I just lick my wounds and move on. Btw this is a same sex relationship, I'm still learning and she was my first love, my heart just won't give up on our love and all my friends is telling it will better in time but I really don't know if I should follow my heart or my mind. I know its over I just can't get it through to my heart to accept it, so please help me I just want to be myself again and I've been going out with friends and keeping myself busy, am I missing something else?
My ex girlfriend is telling her friends and family I'm harassing her. What can I do?
My ex girlfriend and I broke up more than a month ago and I got ot admit its hard to just pick up the pieces and move on but I'm trying anyway about a couple of weeks ago I made a mistake of calling her, I thought if she could hear me out we can then work on our problems and work getting your relationship back on track. I know now its was wishful thinking and I admit I got desperate she wouldn't asnwer my emails it was like the last resort.
But anyway she turned it around and posted on her Facebook I was harassing her and that she called her lawyer to see if I can be charge. We lived in the opposite of the world and I didn't think my emails were harassing her I was just telling her how much I love her and that what we have was special, but I guess it was only me who saw it that way. Every since that day I totally stop contacting her. I figure she wants me out of her life so that's what I'm going to do, I deleted her from the games we played even the once we never played now I reinstalled and deleted myself from her. Her post made me opened my eyes that its totally over and that she doesn't have anymore feelings for me, it was harsh reality sinking in to me. Anyway its been over a week now and I haven't contacted her at all, and then I found out from mutual friends her family is saying she should go get a restraining order for me. I don't know what else to do I cut all ties I can with her, haven't been asking friends about her and I certainly stop calling but its like she is not done rubbing my name through the mud. I left her alone like she wanted why is she still carrying on and making me be the person I am not. I haven't done anything to clear my name at all and believe me I want to but I thought I'll make it worst for myself if I reacted, its hurting me a lot this was the person I trusted and claim to say she knows me but why is she so mad at me even know that I leave her alone.
One of my friend think she is asking drama and making herself the victim and the people that knows me didn't believe what she is saying about me but I told them to let it go. I'm trying to ignore/dismiss what she is saying about me but I really do not know what else I can do.
Just for the record I email her once or twice a day twice only in 2 occasion I found a you tube song that I thought she mite like as it reminded me of her, and I only called her 3 times, once I hung up as a male understand second I thought maybe she change her number and lastly because I just wanted to hear her voice and explain myself but it didn't happen all calls was under 30seconds except the second as her dad went to hand the phone to her. If anyone can advise me I really appreciate it.