Update:
Today at work, at the end of our shift (midnight), my ex asked me if I was waiting for her. Before I could answer, she tells me that she was staying late(keep in mind the work place closes at midnight) and then changed it to how she was inivited somewhere(she was acting all funny and nervous). I also happened to notice that the guy she is sneeking around with was pacing around, waiting to drop her home I bet.
Well I just looked at her and said to her to stop lying and tell the truth for once in her life (her face dropped), then I turned around and walked out the door.

You should have seen her face, it was a classic. I must have ethier hurt her or pissed her off. My bet is on the latter, because she has no heart to get hurt.

What do you people think?

Good. Now leave her alone and forget about her. Don't return he e-mails. Be nice and short with her if she comes up to you.

She for the longest time worked on your jealousies. She was toying with you.

It's about time, you were waiting for a chance to be abrupt to her, now you had it. So go on with your life and stop thinking about her or the other guy. He's just a tool to her also, so don't be mean to him because of what she's doing. Be professional and get back to what you are being paid to do, your job. From now on also keep your personal life separate from professional life, it's better.


good job, now back to work.

Now, just be able to hear the truth from her, and don't react to it. What a wonderful man you are. You empower women.

One_life - listening to her now would only open up old wounds, leave it be and keep your pride! If you are into S & M, I'll give you all the lashes with a wet noodle you want.

Just kidding dear, but wash her out of your hair now, you're doing good.

So the thing to do here, is to ignore her. Got you. I'll just do that. For some reason I feel better. It is like I've taken back all the power. Man the look on her face, it was like someone slaped her on the face. I know she is fuming mad about it. Speaking from past experience she can't handle being told the truth. No body likes being called a liar, especially if you are a liar.

As for the S&M thing, I could try it out for you. LOL

You got it, babe!

Don't take that as a victory. It's WAY too late Just treat her as a colleague/professional. DO NOT anser any more of her persoanl e-mails - questions.

Again - find some one OUTSIDE of work. You will most likely end up with more crap in the long run.

Start being a man - meet women. Be a man - no more Wuss behavior. You're a busy guy.

Looks like you found another **!

Wildcat do me a favour. Instead of posting blindly. Read my previous posts. Do just go these websites and copy and paste them to here? None of it sounds like your own or makes sense to the context. For instance what e-mail exchange are you babbling about. We haven't exchange e-mails since the breakup.

You sound like a cave man. BE MAN- NO WUSS- ME HUNGRY

I beg you to read, then post according the context.

Please do not start on how you deal only in tough love.

You did not read mine. And you constatly have said you return her e-mail.

You still want his gal back and she isn't coming back. Too many mistakes.

Everything you've done is soft until you told her off.

Truth hurts.

Keep doing what you're doing gand tell me how that's working out for you.

If you ever, and I mean ever want to move on with your life, get away from your X, they will try to control you, keep you unhappy by dragging along your feelings.

If your ex works where you do, change jobs, move to a new city
heck move to a new country if you have to. But if you wish to start a new life and move on, you have to do that move on.

I agree - that's why it's best not to have anything to do with them.

One_life, that's just wildcat's way, but he means well, just like me and my smileys'. Remember that nobody's 100% perfect. Go punch a pillow, and get back with us when things get too stressful.
Ta Ta for Now, Chery

She wants your body really bad :D

All right people, don't make me get mid evil on your asses. LOL

So, I feel better just ignoring her at work. I don't even anknowlege her anymore. I know it is driving her up the wall. She brought it on herself. Lied to me during our relationship and lied to me at the end of our relationship and also continues to lie to this day. She should learn that her actions have consequences.

She can't stay friends with me, so she can be satisfied(I don't get that). All this time she thought that she had me tangled around her finger. No way in hell am I going to give her that. Like I said befoe she hates being ignored, and that is exactly what I'm going to do. When she has respect for me and does not regard me as one of her chess play pieces in her stupid games, then maybe I'll acknowlege her. Respect is earned, and as of today she lost what little respect I had for her.

Get Mid-Evil?? :D :D :D :D Very Funny!
You are on the right track my man, keep it up!

How about not thinking about this gal anymore and moving on. The fact that your still posting about her is a big problem. Why on earth do you care about this woman? She lied to you, plays games, is with another guy AT WORK and you still are upset over her? Move brother - it's time. Find a real woman.

Katiy - You are into genealogy? I think you are missing some and need to find them - sure hope you find them soon. You said I was an alien in one post, at least I have all my links, which I doubt you have..

Sorry this had to happen on this thread, but I'm sick and tired of this crap and don't need to take any more.

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Honey, don't worry about her anymore. The only one you can change is yourself - so don't waste your time with anyone else or how they might, could, should, turn out. This is taking away energy you could put to better use.
P.S. instead of letmeno, I meant YOU! and sorry I had to tell someone else off on your thread..