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    Jan 8, 2011, 12:00 PM
    My boyfriend cant forget my past
    So I'm 15 now and a freshman and my boyfriend is 16 and a junior we both go to the same school. We've been dating for 4 months now but we aren't like any other high school couple. We are closer than any other relationship. He was a virgin until I came into his life. However I was not, I lost my virginity at age 14 only last year, and I've had butt sex also. I didn't want to cause I didn't like it but I still did it. My boyfriend can't get that out of his head the more and more attached he gets to me. I've only slept with 2 people my whole life including my boyfriend now. I don't know what to do, and he told me if he can't get that out of his head, then he's going to break up with me. WHAT CAN I DO??
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    Jan 8, 2011, 12:04 PM

    Of course at 15 one has no place having sex, and at 14 and also 15 in most places it is also illegal.

    But this is a problem your boyfriend will have to deal with you can not change your past as he can not change his.
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    Jan 8, 2011, 05:32 PM

    You leave him alone to deal with his issues himself, because its his problem, not yours. You will only make it worse for him.

    If your relationship cannot stand this kind of obstacle, then its not as amazing as you thought, and he isn't as fantastic as you think he is. His mind wasn't ready for sex, even though his body was. He is the one to deal with himself, and you have to let him.
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    Jan 12, 2011, 07:26 PM
    Tell him something cheezy like, "Oh baby, if I knew you were going to come into my life, I would have saved myself for you!" At the end of the day, what's done is done and you can't change the past. You're both very young and understandable how he feels.

    BTW, (girl to girl) Don't tell anyone your sexual history! Not even your friends! Just be safe and smart about it!

    Hugs!
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