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    alisha13 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 28, 2010, 05:19 AM
    My boyfriend is angry with me what should I do?
    M feeling very upset..
    We both love each other a lot.. but we had a quarrel yesterday.. he is annoyed though he didi not pretend.. what should I do to make him happy.. I have already felt sorry... he said"it's ok" but I know we hurted each other.. we need that back moments again we are living far away from each other.. he is in australia...
    From past 3 years..
    Wwht should I do 4 his happiness..?
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    redhed35 Posts: 4,221, Reputation: 1910
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    Aug 28, 2010, 05:27 AM

    You can't control someone else's emotions or happiness.

    They do it for themselves.

    You have said sorry,that's enough,its up to him to accept it and move on in the relationship.

    Arguments happen in relationships,its how you deal with that make or break it.

    Talk about what happened and move on from it.
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    Aug 28, 2010, 05:30 AM

    Forgiveness is only a second away. Forgive yourself, forgive him and let it go. You can only change yourself. Be in joy. Find your inner strength.
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    Aug 28, 2010, 05:30 AM


    You can't really make anybody happy but yourself. He's the one that is responsible for his own happiness.

    What was the argument about?

    How has your relationship been up until now? Is he angry with you a lot?
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    Aug 28, 2010, 07:17 AM

    If your boyfriend loves you, he will get over this. A healthy relationship should not be that much work for one person. It takes two to make an argument, and it takes two to make up. You did your part, now see if he can do his. You can only control yourself, and that's all you can do.. It's up to him.
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    Aug 28, 2010, 07:37 AM
    Thanks everybody... thanks a lot...
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    Aug 28, 2010, 07:38 AM

    This shouldn't be a big deal. If you two really love and care for each other, he will surely get over this. When both of you calm down a bit, you can talk to him about how you feel and also listen to how he feels.

    You are the one who's in the relationship with him, so you will of course know the best what might make him happy. Anyway, your happiness is also important as much as his, please don't forget that.
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    Aug 28, 2010, 09:20 PM
    May I ask how old you are?
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    Aug 28, 2010, 09:42 PM
    Just piling on...

    I can read your post. I can be upset. Did you make me upset? Did he make me upset?

    I am upset. I own this. It might be tied to your details, but it is my reaction.

    How I respond to it is mine.

    ...

    So... what do you quarrel about? More info can help...

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