I have been relying a lot on daily horoscopes to help with my relationship problems. However, when I read a certain horoscope that is bad it ruins my whole day. Like my ex who tells me he will want me back. When I read his, it will say something like, Romance is in the air for you today. This destroys my whole out look on life. Please help me understand this stuff. Do we make our own destinys or is it really written in the stars for us already?