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Hey,
Well me and my girlfriend have been having sex for a year or so and have been datin for about 3 years. I can't seem to please her sexually, durrin intercorse. She tells me what I need to do and I do it but she doesn't seem to get anything out of it. Is there something that I can do that she might enjoy better from intercourse?
Yes , although every women and that are different you go try foreplay rather than having sex.Many women aren't sexually stimulated by sex many are better stimulated in other ways...
Some ways such as fingering and tongues on the girl's g-spot /clitoris makes them go nuts... she might be better for it as well.
Use these methods and you be better both of you for it .
Good luck.
I definitely agree with lil_mandy something that I think might work wonders for you is blindfolding her. This will help her focus on her other senses and because she's not looking she won't know what's next. Get creative, incorporate different objects, rub ice on her in her intimate areas and then blow gently the difference in temperature will surely raise hers.
I totally agree with hpelvy and little mandy. But may I suggest including some romance in this situation. For instance take her out to a nice dinner and have a friend go to your home say 5 minutes before you get home and have them cover the room with candles (be careful not to burn the house down). Also have some romantic music playing. Start with a slow dance and a slow kiss. Then undress her slowly have her lay down and get some warm lotion and give her a full body rub making her relaxed. While rubbing her legs allow your fingers to go into her. And go from there. Good luck my friend!
As a starter :-Quote:
Originally Posted by tanna32000
A nice oily massage with dim lights or candle!
Or a nice HOT bubble bath together...
Share your fantasies, communication is the key!
Hey man this is a problem that as guys, we will all deal with. You need to sit down wwith har and have her tell you just what she wants before sex. This will clear this up. Also, be open to new ideas.
All of the suggestions are great on here. But as stated every woman is different. All woman don't have the same turn ons and it is hard to say what your g/f turn on is... Again as I have stated many times and will many more times on this site communication is a key item.
As for her reacting orgasm, some woman are able to have one very easily while other have a very hard time doing so. Many factors play into this.
Some of my personal suggestions would be have her masterbate to climax and "take notes" see what and how she does things to reach orgasm this could be a great tool for you. Also find out what her fantasy are, but you both will have to feel very comfortable with each other to have such conversations and both must remember not to judge the other in any way shape or form. If you do in any way you will not only start back at square one , you will break down some of the confort level you two have and actually may make things worst. Newness is always welcomed in sexual acts by both people as lone as both are comfortable with the new thing or action. Find out what gets her wet and go from there.
Case in point:
Female has a hard time reaching orgasm even through self masterbating however when the element or chance of being cought in the act by someone, she finds herself very easy to reach orgasm. (Other people in the room but don't know what is going on)
Another little fact:
Unlike men, woman (once reaching orgasm) don't go back to square one... they stay at a high state of arousal and can easily have multiple orgasms very quickly. (be careful however sometime the woman vaginal parts can become sore or extremely sensitive directly after a woman has an orgasm.)
Hope this helps
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