Girlfriend of 5 years left me to see other people
Okay where do I start? Well I'm 23 and she is 22. After 5 years she left me to see other guys. Yes we did meet in high school and yes I was her "first everything", however she was not my 1st everything. She told me she hated my job because I couldn't be there every holiday with her at her family's house. She said I never gave her space, which is not true because during the day I'm at work and even when I'm home she still did all things she wanted to do. I was always there for her when she needed to vent, cry, etc.
Her family never liked me, but I never let that get to me, I still sucked it up and saw them with her. I just don't understand. I'm so lost. She said we were 2 different people, which is true but that's what made it work. I had a rough child hood and she didn't. My parents split at 14 I've had a job ever since... she on the other hand had it all. I'm introverted and she isn't. She is ditzy and I'm not. It worked!! Her friends wanted what we had. When she went off to college I was the one to pay her way, not her parents. I did everything emotionally, physically, and financially happy. I never asked for anything in return, and if I do it was the occasional weekend where I didn't want to do anything because I was tired from work. My job is very physical.
It hurts for me to accept that she left to see other people. Like what did I do wrong, I don't get it. I haven't slept well the past nine days. I'm trying to let go. I haven't tried to make contact because I don't want to push her away. I have this hole in my chest. I'm trying to understand but I have no one to turn to for advice. Should I move on, should I wait? She said I haven't lost her forever but she wants to see what else is out there. What should I do and what did I do wrong?
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Ex girlfriend couldn't get off
Ok I have a question that has been bothering me for the past 5 years... Now she left me to see other people, but the problem we had in our sex life was that she did not know how to even get herself there. She's 22, I was her first but I was she was not my first. I've tried just about everything I can do. Every women is different this I know. I suggested she explore her body by herself so that way she can show me what she likes. I felt like I had so much pressure on me because she didn't even like to Try herself out. I've suggested toys, foreplay, I mean everything. I'm starting to think that she left me for the wrong reason. And let me make it clear she liked to have sex all the time, her drive was up there. So I mean is if she can't do it herself why put so much pressure on?