What are the thoughts about dating a guy 10 years older? I am 26... he is 36... about to me 37 actually. Never that much physical attraction, but I always thought the age was an issue, so I never pursued us. But he is the first guy that ever said he loved me. And he has been so good to me. I've kind of dicked him around because I wanted to date and see how that goes. Needless to say, I haven't found anyone dating yet... after a year and a half. He is from Japan. We have never been intimate, but have gone out together a lot and have been on dates, even though I never considered them dates until now.. looking back on them. I have known him for about 4 years and we have been great friends.
There is just something holding me back. He is very upfront and wants to be in a relationship and would probably love to marry me (from the way he acts).
Why can't I get over this age thing? It's is bothering me so much. What do I do? Is it not meant to be something intimate? Should I keep dating and wait? If I keep waiting and never find someone... I feel like he will just keep getting older and we will be wasting time. If we haven't wasted enough! I just can't get past the age. I know a lot of people say, who cares! But I don't know! I just feel like I am getting older and my friends are getting married and I am still alone. I need to move on it. Maybe I am being blind.
Someone help!