There is this guy that I dated a couple of times 7 months back, but distance made us drift apart. Distance is no longer an issue, but he now has a girlfriend who I hear he wants to break up with, but feels guilty about.
This guy, seems to act confident and loud, but when it comes to confronting a problem or issue, he would just rather not deal with it. He seems to need a lot of encouragement or reassurance as well.. reflecting back, all the times we dated he would say something like, "let me know when u are free", "give me a call, I should be free most of the time" etc
Which annoyed me because I felt like I was doing all the work!
Anyway, he sends and forwards me jokes, emails etc all the time now, maybe an attempt to keep in touch or something?
It hurts me that he is still in touch with me when he has a girlfriend that he wants to break up with, so I want to tell him something like "can u stop forwarding me emails"
Is this too harsh?