Am I being manipulated regarding child support for 2 children
I have been divorced for three years, me and my ex husband have joint custody of our two children, although I have guardianship and they reside with me full time. When we divorced our children were 5 and 8 months, and the situation was working out fine. Now he has remarried and now the situation has changed. He does pay for the medical expenses for the children but hey are never sick so that cost is low, also he pays 350.00 for two children for support. The children are now 9 and 3 and have other expenses like soccer and dance that he refuses to contribute. The original decree stated that we were supposed to revisit the agreement each year to make any changes needed. We can never do that because each time I try to address it he tells me about all his new bills he has now that he is married. I am a military mother and I have remarried also I was called to active duty for a year as a reservist but when I return my salary will go back to 32,000 dollars. I have asked him to consider letting me cover the girls medically to assist him in his financial woes but he insist on keeping that cost so what do I do, the expenses for the children grow each year, should I just leave things alone or modify the custody agreement to request more support. :confused