Need relationship help weird breakup!
Hello I am looking for some serious help and I need it so bad. I have been with this girl for 2 1/2 years I am 26 she is 20 years old. We known each other for almost 8-10 years prior as friends. We started dating in September of 2009 and it was off to a great start. Four months into the relationship we started living with each other everything was greatwe did everything together enjoyed each others time and had a bunch of mutual friends. December of 2010 I asked her to marry be and she said yes. I bought a home and we started to do a remodel on it and made preparations on the marriage. On December 30, 2011 she came home crying and said she needed a break and packed her essential stuff and left. I asked for reasons and she could not give me any. She is not talking to her friends much since this has happened and it is turning into 6 weeks. I found out she was seeing a guy from her work the week we split up and then found out he dumped her a few weeks later. I have not communicated with her since the breakup and neither has she tried to communicate with me. I found out I was single via Facebook when the break became official. I got one text message that to some it up said she was sorry the way she handled everything, it is not another guy, she felt smothered and overwealmed. She deleted all my pictures off her Facebook and has not started to party every weekend. I know she has been sleeping around. She told one of her friends "i guess if I find out I made a mistake I will just have to live with it". Guys what should I do? I am heartbroken and I treated her great no issues at all. I have been doing no contact and do think I should be the one to break the ice since she initiated the breakup and also if I call she may think that I am still wrapped around her finger and she can have me back when she wants me. Please Help! Thanks