Husband says he's done! Help??
My husband and I have been married for two years, we are both 27 years old. Last weekend he told me he's "done" with the relationship. Yes, most of it is MY fault because I have been extremely unemotional and insensitive and he has brought this up a few times before. However I didn't realize the only reason I was like that was because my antidepressant was making me numb.. I stopped taking my antidepressant a few weeks ago and I feel emotional again.
The past week has been complete hell.. he doesn't want to talk.. when I told him I stopped taking my antidepressant his response was "too little too late." I know I messed up but now that I know the cause of the problem and have fixed it he isn't willing to work on things. He sleeps on the couch instead of in bed, tries to avoid me and said that one of us needs to move out. However when I started packing a few days ago (to see his reaction) he started crying. I know he loves me and he's told me that he still does. I'm so lost.. but I made the mistake of crying hysterically in front of him and begging him not to leave (I've read that actually pushes the person further away.)
Also he hasn't told anyone or his family about his "decision"... what can I do? I can't keep pushing him to work on it because when I do he says it's too late. I love him so much and I know I hurt him. Please help!