Is this considered stalking?
Before you all hate on me let me explain a few things. First, I have been with this woman for 7+ years. I have never cheated or even thought about it. I have been there through thick and thin. I have never abused her in any way, I have taken her through surgeries and we have always been a team. Here is where it gets confusing to me... We were so close that at Income Tax time came around we had our refunds combined, this was just a few weeks ago BTW. Meaning, joint income was going to one account.
We both have access to the account online and can see transactions as they occur.
Problem, 3 days ago she tells me we have to take a "break in the relationship" because we need to find ourselves again so we can be happy and build a family. Then she says I'm moving in with my sister so you can fix yourself and I can work on myself. I was like . Out of the blue. I accepted it and if you read any of my other post It was painful. She is gone now BTW, 8 hours.
Grrr, Joint Account... I pulled my $1300.00 out of the joint account right away to pay some bills. She still had $2100.00 I asked her to try and save $1500.00 just in case. You never know. Anyway, here is where you girls might learn a lesson.
She told me she wants a break (to explore other avenues I guess) but we have so much history together, the joint account is emailing me every 45 minutes to tell me the purchases I've made. She has blown 80% Of the balance and I can't do anything about it.
This is really hard guys, I really don't want to know that she is wasting (used to to be our) money.
Most of the money spent went sraight to her sister, food, gas, smokes, etc. Why man, I actually feel sorry for her. I want to help, but can't