Should I be offended if my lover invited me to join a sex group on Facebook?
I have a fwb and we've been friends for 18 yrs. The first few yrs. we have been intimate from 2001-2005. After that time period we lost contact because he moved. A yr. later I met someone and got married. Long story little short we divorced 2011. I reconnected with my same fwb. I've spent nights over his house plenty of times. We have been on and off so we are not a couple. In fact one time I saw him out somewhere at a local place by me and he was with someone and I was talking to this guy. It was a pub. He came over by me while I was conversing with this guy and asked me if I was good. It was awkward for me and the guy because the guy I was talking to looked and said um who is that your ex or something.
Now up to now he will purposely ask me to call him but don't answer he's done this couple times. The updated killer is we are friends on Facebook. I recently got a request for invitation from a group he just joined. It is an x-rated page on Facebook..
thoughts please
Do you think he was just trying to be nice?
My fwb and I are basically on and off. We've been friends for 18 yrs.
To make a long story short. One of the times after him and I got together I bumped into
him 2 mos later at a pub celebrating a friends birthday. I didn't know he would be there.
He no longer live in that area. Anyway I was talking to a gentleman at the bar and eating food. I just happened to look up and he was across the bar all the way down at the opposite end on the other side. We looked up at each other just looked that was all.
He was even with someone. Like 15 mins. later he comes over by me and ask me ,
Are you good? I said um yea. I can't even remember what else was said it was awkward
because I was in the middle of a conversation.
The guy that I was talking to said to me who is that your ex or something. Why he come over here asking if you were good. It was a little strange. We don't have a relationship but friends for long time. Then later on he was coming back toward my way
with the female he was with and we passed each other but at that time I was leaving on my way out the door. I guess he was going with her on the side where I was at.