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  • Nov 18, 2016, 09:31 AM
    jammy23
    Not adoption but searching for someone's mother
    I'm on a board that has a segment for missing persons. I'm trying to help
    Someone whose mother left him as a young boy and never called or made
    Contact. I got her married name at the time and her maiden name and
    Approx age and which part of NY she lived in. I checked the obits
    Without luck. Are there any other sites I could check besides intelius,
    Zabasearch, whitepages, and a few others?? Her last job was in a
    Hospital that closed its doors years ago. Her son wants closure.
  • Nov 18, 2016, 10:10 AM
    J_9
    Have you tried Facebook?
  • Nov 18, 2016, 10:32 AM
    jammy23
    Yes... but the name is so common that I had no luck at all... used her former
    Married name and her maiden name and both had tons of people... I just
    Tried the Justice Dept for missing persons but no luck
  • Nov 18, 2016, 10:38 AM
    J_9
    You won't get a hit on missing persons if she hasn't been reported as one.
  • Nov 18, 2016, 10:44 AM
    jammy23
    Guess you're right... slim chance her husband reported it and the son didn't
    Know about it... well, she wasn't in the obits either... I'm about to give up
  • Nov 18, 2016, 12:47 PM
    joypulv
    Her son needs to have a Facebook page of his own, and put all this on it, with his own birth data, and requests to share.

    I have seen many people find someone that way.

    When I am looking for someone I know, I have no problem weeding out all the people with the same name. That's why he needs to do this himself.
  • Nov 18, 2016, 04:57 PM
    Alty
    Has he tried hiring a private investigator? If FB didn't work, and all the online digging didn't work, then perhaps it's time to hire someone that does this sort of thing for a living, with results.
  • Nov 18, 2016, 05:38 PM
    jammy23
    You may be right. Are you familiar with any reputable resource for this?
    I don't know his financial circumstances but, as my mom use to say,
    "it couldn't hurt"... I will also ask him if he did a Facebook search.
    Thank you for your suggestions.

    You may be right. Are you familiar with any reputable resource for this?
    I don't know his financial circumstances but, as my mom use to say,
    "it couldn't hurt"... I will also ask him if he did a Facebook search.
    Thank you for your suggestions.

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