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  • Jul 9, 2007, 08:41 AM
    ILUVHIM08151988
    A mans mind?
    What goes through a mans mind when they love someone
  • Jul 9, 2007, 08:42 AM
    alkaline
    I would imagine it would be pretty much what goes through a woman's mind when they love someone...
  • Jul 9, 2007, 01:57 PM
    tweak123
    If the guy really loves you truly then it is hard, cause emotion comes into play, may get gittery around you, can't speak good, well depends on what the guy is like? Aggressive, romantic, shy, etc etc? Let me tell you as a hopeless romantic it is very different. You have to truly understand what type of guy he is.
  • Jul 9, 2007, 02:24 PM
    startover22
    It doesn't matter what is in his mind, what matters is what is in his heart. If there is love in it, you will know it for sure. You understand?
  • Jul 9, 2007, 07:15 PM
    ddog22
    If he loved you, he would swing through a jungle full of tigers just to bring you a glass of water! Good luck...
  • Jul 9, 2007, 07:57 PM
    startover22
    Oh geeze Ddog22, aren't you sweet... Would you do that for your woman?
  • Jul 9, 2007, 08:10 PM
    ddog22
    Yeah, and hey I like the double duece!
  • Jul 9, 2007, 08:30 PM
    huno
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ddog22
    If he loved you, he would swing through a jungle full of tigers just to bring you a glass of water! Good luck....

    She asked what a man would do.

    A man would bring a 12-gauge and shoot through a jungle full of tigers just to bring you a beer. :cool:
  • Jul 9, 2007, 08:33 PM
    ddog22
    Huno, can't argue w/ that! You go first. Got your back.
  • Jul 10, 2007, 01:47 PM
    Skrypt
    When a man loves someone, all that's on his mind is that person. Rarely every hour or so he gets sidetracked for like 10 minutes. Now that's young love.
  • Jul 11, 2007, 06:14 AM
    self_lnflicted_hell
    Wouldn't we all like to know??
  • Jul 11, 2007, 09:47 AM
    startover22
    Yes, we would.
  • Jul 11, 2007, 10:34 AM
    TheMaster170
    When a man is in love, he is always thinking on her, trying to do everything to be with her and for her! Trust me, I know this from experience ;)

    By the way, what goes through women's mind when they are in love?
  • Jul 12, 2007, 06:35 AM
    self_lnflicted_hell
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by TheMaster170
    When a man is in love, he is always thinking on her, trying to do everything to be with her and for her! Trust me, I know this from experience ;)

    By the way, what goes through women's mind when they are in love?

    All right, this is also for Jesushelper...
    I can't answer for all women but...
    Here you go...
    Are we good enough, or still good enough? Are we still as beautiful as we were the first time you laid eyes on us? That woman with a nice rack, do you find her attractive? Is her rack better than mine? Do you still want to be with me forever? Will you always be here for me and never let me down? Is my butt getting too big? Does he still find me attractive? Am I still good in bed? Are there any other women that he's attracted to? She's got a nice body, is mine that nice? Will he notice her?! He looked! Is he imagining her naked?? Does he really like my hair? He says he does... He doesn't touch me or look at me like he use to, has he lost interest? He never wants to cuddle anymore, is he getting tired of me? He's watching porn/online porn, does that mean I don't do it for him anymore? I'm not good enough? I found him on an online dating site, does that mean he's trying to find something else? Why would he be on there?? He's with me!

    Is it called psychoanalyzing? :D
    If not, that's a good word for it!
  • Jul 12, 2007, 06:44 AM
    TheMaster170
    Loool. That's a very detailed answer :D Thanks!

    But I still find you (women) very hard to understand... I just have to look at my (almost) girlfriend to prove my point ;)
  • Jul 12, 2007, 06:51 AM
    iAMfromHuntersBar
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by When a maaaaaaaaaaaan loves a womaaaaaaaaaaan
    When a man loves a woman, Can't keep his mind on nothin' else
    He'd trade the world,
    For a good thing he's found
    If she is bad, he can't see it
    She can do no wrong
    Turn his back on his best friend
    If he puts her down

    When a man loves a woman
    Spend his very last dime
    Trying to hold on to what he needs
    He'd give up all his comforts
    And sleep out in the rain
    If she said that's the way
    It ought to be


    When a man loves a woman
    I give you everything I got (yeah)
    Trying to hold on
    To your precious love
    Baby please don't treat me bad


    When a man loves a woman
    Deep down in his soul
    She can bring him such misery
    If she is playing him for a fool
    He's the last one to know
    Loving eyes can never see


    Yes when a man loves a woman
    I know exactly how he feels
    'cause baby, baby, baby
    I am a man
    When a man loves a woman

    Hey... no-one's mentioned men loving other men here! Or loving your parents / siblings! Shocking!

    I love my Moomin with all my heart and I'd do anything for her - including telling her to QUIT SMOKING every half hour or so! He he he!

    I also love my mates, and I'd always help them out to the best of my abilities!

    What goes through my mind?
    How lucky I am to have such amazing people in my life that feel the same about me, they make me what I am!

    J
  • Jul 12, 2007, 07:13 AM
    self_lnflicted_hell
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by TheMaster170
    loool. That's a very detailed answer :D Thanks!

    But I still find you (women) very hard to understand... I just have to look at my (almost) girlfriend to prove my point ;)


    You'll never fully understand us. Were hard wired completely different from you. But if you men want to make an honest effort to try, open up your eyes, heart and mind just a little bit more. Try to relate with our emotions. Take our emotional times with a grain of salt because we'll always wonder, and we'll always worry, no matter how happy we look or how happy things seem. It's only because we love our man with all our might and we can't imagine life without him. If I didn't care about him or Us so much then I wouldn't let things bother me.
    We'll be OK. Just make sure you show us love and respect, always make us feel it, remind us that there's no one on this earth that could ever do for you what we do.. that no one could ever compare.
  • Jul 12, 2007, 08:19 AM
    TheMaster170
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by self_lnflicted_hell
    You'll never fully understand us. Were hard wired completely different from you. But if you men want to make an honest effort to try, open up your eyes, heart and mind just a little bit more. Try to relate with our emotions. Take our emotional times with a grain of salt because we'll always wonder, and we'll always worry, no matter how happy we look or how happy things seem. It's only because we love our man with all our might and we can't imagine life without him. If I didn't care about him or Us so much then I wouldn't let things bother me.
    We'll be OK. Just make sure you show us love and respect, always make us feel it, remind us that there's no one on this earth that could ever do for you what we do..that no one could ever compare.

    :)
  • Jul 12, 2007, 08:41 AM
    startover22
    You guys are opening my mind to so many other things... Great answers. ALL of you.
  • Jul 12, 2007, 10:28 AM
    TheMaster170
    You have just took the words out of my mouth! I am learning so much... and I am going to try to use everything I've been learning to make my girl the happiest woman in the world.

    For her, I would buy the world, the sky, the stars, but that's impossible, so the best I can do is make her happy. When she's happy, I'm happier :)

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