My Ex GF and I have been boken up for 3months now. We are still totally connected and a lot of the time I feel that we are still in love with each other. We were together for 4.5 years. When we broke up she started to date this guy, A guy that she admitted to having a crush on while we were together. Since the breakup the two of them do not seem to be really having the "fairy tale" relationship either. They hardly hangout and don't seem to have similar interests or goals. She knows that I would like to work things out with her and she has said multiple times that she feels like she is making a mistake by leaving me. But she needs to see things through with him so there is not ever a question about him again. Which brings me to the question. She and I are Bestfriends, have similar interests, goals. Our conversations are great. We love each other a great deal. But we are COMFORTABLE and I don't know if that is good? I think if I was to play a little aloof or just not so available to her, things would change. Please help with any sugestions on bringing some intruige back to this relationship. How to I make her feel the SPARK again after 5 years? Cause I still have it for her.