I love my husband and we've been together for 8 years. Just as most married couples we have had our good and bad times. However I can't begin to tell you the numerous times we have split and gotten back together. I'm so tired of the same pattern and I don't know if I want to remain married to him anymore! This last split was pretty terrible and I truly believe in my heart I am over this! Five months past with no contact on either end and a few weeks ago he contacted me. Like a dummy I replied,and well guess what we're back together again. What really bothers me is before we split I begged him to quit his job and move home. It was a job that required constant travel. Well I knew he had a girlfriend and I told him the grass wouldn't be greener, that I'm his wife and I've always been there. Well he quit his job during our split and moved with her! It didn't work and so what does he do runs home. I love him and he knows I would let him back as usual. This time though I don't feel the same and I don't think I want to be with him anymore. I feel as if he's with me out of convenience and not to mention family problems. My family hates me (the feeling is mutual) and my family hates him. How do I tell him this isn't going to work and him take me serious. I've mentioned it 2days after him being home! It's been 2weeks and my feelings haven't changed. How do I end it and not feel bad or like I'm wrong?