Doughter in law from hell
How do I deal with a daughter in law from Brazil that my son married after only knowing her for 6 months. They have been married 2 years now
She treats me terrible, threatens constently to take my son and move to Brazil so I never see him again.
We are a very close family (or were) till she joined it.
This is not just me, all my son'e friends find her odd and feel that he got in way over his head.
I do nothing but cry, and my son feels terrible that this has happened to our family. But does say he loves her, and made a comittment to her.
She has slapped him across the face in front of my family, calls him stupid, and the other day we had a birhtday party or my grandson and they came, but soon as we cut the cake, and she finished her piece she yelled at my son to get up they were leaving. My son wasn't even done, but I know that there was some deal made for her to come, because she never comes to family things. But my son always comes alone. He never misses.
He has sold his house moved out of the area 2 hours away, changed jobs.
My daughter told me that Marcia said that she wanted to sell the house because my son said they can't move to Brazil he has a mortgage on this house and can't just walk away.
Now the rent, which my son said its on;y for 1 yr. till they find something they like. But said they made a big profit on the house. I asked if he invested it. He said no. that Marcia's cousin is a banker in Brazil and she is asking him how to invest it.
Now I just heard that she is going to Brazil. I am afraid that she is taking the money and running. My son is saying nothing.
Should I ask him what's going on.. I know I should stay out of it. But he is such a hard worker, had so many friends, played hockey, baseball etc. and now does nothing. Just works.
She will only shop at Guess, or expensive stores and will only buy brand name things.
She also said that if my son and her split, she talked to a lawyer and he will have to pay her over $1000.00 spousal cause she has a language issue.
I told my son this and she said that I was lying. But that's what she told me and my daughter.
I am sick over this HELP!!