My boyfriend and I have known each other for about 3 years now and been together for a year. When I first met him he was as real as they come. Meaning he was honest about everything how he felt etc.
Long story short now that we've been together he has been acting as a closed shell. Things that go on with him I have to assume, wonder, and guess as I tell him. I had all my trust in him up until he lied to me about being sleep when actually he was over some friends house. How I know cause when I was calling his phone it would pick up and he didn't know it and I was hold the phone and listen to the back ground. That was an unnecessary lie to me. Then it seem like weeks after that I started finding numbers in his phone of females. But they all know he got to girl. I'm so lost he say he want lie anymore. Its killing me not to trust. What should I do?