I think my hubby need something to do when he is home just for boredism.he have been video chatting and phone sex through Facebook messenger.
It's with a woman he was involved with when he was in his 20s now at 48 he contacts her on Facebook.

We are 6 hours away from her and I know it's not serious. Some people tell me it may help our marriage .He and this woman had sex 5 yrs ago as well.We have a pretty bog newly built house so I know it's nothing

Does he know you are eyeing a cute co worker to date? Or sometimes you're single? Or is it that several people besides yourself use this account?

Please clarify so we know who we are talking to.

You sound incredibly nonchalant about it. I don't see how this has anything to do with boredom. It has everything to do with not respecting the vows he took. According to Tal there might be history in the family of not respecting the vows and maybe that's why you are so nonchalant about it.

If he is bored, he plays golf or video games, no he should not be texting another women.

Of course not! It is a mortal sin!