Hi, I have a good working relationship with a male work colleague and still do. Btw I'm female in my forties. I've noticed lately that if I express an opinion about him that's complimentary he exaggerates the behaviour and that's negative he stops the behaviour. He's turning into a bit of a yes man. I thought it was unusual but now he's contacted me a couple of times usually over the weekend, outside work and invited me to play online poker, not with him, just to play it. Does anyone have an idea of what's going on. I've tried asking him but he just gets embarrassed and changes the subject. Then the behaviour cools off for a while but then starts back up again. Maybe a man might understand him and could tell me?