Cant seem to get to BF Stage
I can talk to women even if I don't know them. But I can never (hardly ever) get to a boyfriend state. They either say no and see me as a friend or avoid me... Can't decided if its appearance or communication issue.
Any thoughts?
I am generally able to make them laugh...
Perspectives. Male and Female
When I find a woman physically attractive I will initiate some form of contact leading to conversation. I then look for Indications of interest to see if she likes me. Before asking her out.
This can include things like, is she coming to talk to me when she next sees me, is she initiating some form of contact. Is she trying to get closer? Is she taking an interest in me?
Does she purposly try to catch my eye, etc.
But generally I find I receive the same response of the woman enjoying talking to me. But when I see her out, I do not get any initiated responses from them. They do not go out of their way to speak to me specifically. Or show any signs of attraction. And in some cases have a barrier raised to getting closer even if they are very friendly.
If a guy is talking to a girl and she is emotional / Romantically attracted / interested in him surly they will show this!
Is this the case or do women generally avoid this display of attraction waiting for the man to show everything. If it is the latter then from my own perspective, if I like someone and I do not receive Indications of interest back from her, then this is a sign not to pursue. But since this happens on most encounters, I suspect my perspective might be in error!
My rational is that I am either unatractive and seen just as a friend or my veiws on this subject is flawed. Not sure which.
Any thoughts?