HI! I am from India. I am married for the last 8yrs. Have a son too. I have looked after all the responsibility as a husband, sacrificed a lot regarding my job and all so that my wife could carry on with hers. The only thing I dislike is her male friends giving her a hug. I have conveyed my disliking for this, but its continuing still. Everytime she tries giving stupid logics as to what can I do, he hugs everybody, sometimes she says I didn't anticipate the hug from some other person.
I don't smoke, but once during drinks my friend offered me to take one puff. I did, my wife disapproved and its been 7 years I never touched cigarette. The thing is I have always pampered her, got her the best of the best stuff, but she doesn't seem to understand. Once a male friend of hers came to my house with his daughter alone, not his wife, giving reason that his 4 yrs old daughter loves playing with my son, but he was surprised to see me as he expected me to be out of station.
A couple of times, I have seen her male colleague giving her a hug when I was not around but coincidentally I saw as I was coming to her office. First she refused about hug and later agreed as he hugs everybody. What can I do? Looking forward to your worldly advice.
Thanks