Feel helpless and he wants a divorce.
I am 55 years old and he wants a divorce. I currently do not have a stable job (I am a substitute teacher and haven't had a call for 3 months), a car or a bank account with any money in it. He basically controls the finances. I agreed to this because I made a mess with the prior bank.
Now the history hard part... my health has not been great for several years, he says after the 3rd surgery he has had enough. He has no sympathy for me anymore.
I found out he was using the computer to meet other women. In retaliation, I started gambling, 1) to get some money and 2) to get him where it would hurt the most. Of course, I agree that was stupid and of course, didn't work out to well. That is why I agreed to turn over the finances. Now he is fooling around with a married woman at work.
I have no where to go and family cannot help me. I feel helpless in this divorce, what am I to do?