Kicking masturbation/porn in a pretty much sexless marriage
I'm going to just get straight to the point and say it I know my masturbation/porn habit has really hurt my ability to make love to my wife, and I know I need to stop. I love my wife and I'm not trying to put any blame on her, but her lack of sex drive is really making this hard for me to do. And it's not just lack of sex drive it seems that if she's not in the mood than than she won't do anything at all to help me out, whether it be oral, or a hand job. How does one kick such habits in a nearly sexless marriage?