I would like to know if there is any straight guy falling in love with a gay guy? If so, how was it possible? Can a straight guy do so?

Anyone can fall in love with anyone.

The thing is, if a straight guy falls in love with a gay guy, well, he's not really straight. He may not be gay, but he's at least bi-sexual.

In other words, yes, it's possible for a bi-sexual guy to fall in love with a gay guy.

Now, if you're asking because you're in love with a straight guy and want to know if you have a chance, well, unlikely. If he's straight then he's not going to go for a guy. Just like a gay guy wouldn't go for a girl.

Yes, I'm also very interested to know where you are coming from. Are you a straight guy? A girl? A gay guy? Or unsure?

Hi, eezzee_2!

Yes, why are you asking the questions, please?

I'm straight. But, I've been in love with one of my gay friends for a number of decades. It's just that I'm not gay. We do have a tremendous amout of things in common and share a lot with each other concerning the love we have for each other and fun that we have doing things together.

I also have a number of other gay friends. But, this one in particular, if I were gay, he would be my lover. But, I'm not gay...

How love is shown, can have many meanings and definitions. It's not all about sex...

So, to directly answer your question, I would say yes, that it's possible for a straight guy to fall in love with a gay man.

But, what do you mean by "love", please?

Thanks!

It's always possible, but it's case-by-case / person-to-person.

I believe it is highly likely that a straight man would fall in love with a gay man.

The chemistry of attraction is what factors into an ability to fall in love. A straight man while he may be fond of a gay friend will not feel the chemistry of attration that is necessary to fall into a loving state.

My guess from the question will be that you are wondering if you have a chance with a straight friend... the odds are highly stacked against you. It would be like a gay man falling in love with a woman.

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Do you know any straight guy falling in love with a gay guy?

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For friendship, sure happens all the time. For love, and romance? Almost NEVER!! He wouldn't be straight then would he?

To Justwantfair
And talaniman ,
I am a male age 20, I have a nine month old son and I have been pretty much the guy you see in the movies that gets almost any girl he wants and I loved it and I still do, but one day I met a guy who wasn't trying in anyway to look like a girl but just had a natural beauty that honestly I can say was that of a true angel, I mean this guy was lit. gorgeous, and over a matter of a few months I came to find myself madly in love with him, now to this day I swear to you, I hold him in my arms and I feel so much more at one with myself and the world with him in a way I have never for any one girl, or two or three girls, I am not gay, I don't have sex with him, and I don't plan to but I do love him beyond a doubt. I have learned from a very young age to separate love and sex even relationships and sex and honestly I feel like I am the happiest person alive so *** try to be open minded towards this topic because I would have never expected my life to be this way but I also wouldn't change a damn thing :)

Yes my friend and I have been together two years now and we have never been happier. He is straight and I am gay. I admit it is very weird. We have never had sex in anyway. But I have learned more about love from being with him than I have over the course of all my other relationships combined. When Sex is taken out of the picture you are forced to come up with other ways to show each other that you care. We all know that sex rarely is an expression of selflessness. He dates girls and I see boys, however it is made clear that WE will aways come first. I would be very interested in Talking to other couples like us to see what potential problems we will face and how others have overcame them since this is such a rare path that gets traveld.