Hello my name is shan. I want to know the process of divorice. I was married to my wife in my culture in our church but there is no paperwork showing that I was married to her. I did file taxes with her. We have been separated for two years now. And I want to get remarried. But I am not sure what to do. Does this mean I was married or was not married since I have no paperwork showing that I was married to her. But we still filed taxes together. Please help me.