I'm 18 years old involved with a 20 year old Marine. He was my first serious boyfriend. We have been together for over a year, and have known each other for over 2 years now. He has been in the military since last summer. Obviously, we could handle 3 months of only having letters as contact during boot camp, and then another 7+ when he went to his MOS, we talked twice a week. As long as we've been together, he has been around maybe for 9 of those months. Since he has moved closer to me (about 1 1/2 hours away) I see him on the weekends. We're extremely close considering we don't get to see each other or talk to each other so much, but our relationship is really friendship based, more than a mushy, fake, "girlfriend and boyfriend" deal, even though we sometimes get mushy on each other just for the heck of it =) We do show and voice our affection other than saying "I love you"... "I love you more!" every hour or so. He's now reserve and wants to augment into active duty, which I'm cool with, if I were him I would do the same, but how do I handle if/when he goes overseas? I mean, we are pretty much used to not seeing each other, and this will obviously be different. Most of my friends are in the military, and I have watched several of them leave to Iraq and come back, so I'm not unfamiliar with how much contact you get with that person, and how long they're gone, etc. Which really, always varies. My fiancé though, worries that if he goes, I won't stay faithfull to him, that I will leave him, which is really unlike me. I'm EXTREMELY committed person, but that is what he has been told, so that is what he thinks. I don't know 1. How to get it in his head that I WILL NOT leave him, and 2. handle him leaving if and when he does. I won't leave him, but I'm wondering how to handle the whole situation personally. Any advice would be helpful.