Ive been married for 23 years and lately my husband can get a full erection but the minute he enters me it goes completely dead?

This tends to happen with some men as they age. Has he had a complete physical done by his primary care doctor recently?

How old are you both? Does he take meds? What kind of health is he in? Any new stresses or major life changes, or money problems?

What makes you think it's about how he feels about you? Have there been disagreements between you?

Hes 42. Im 47. Yes stress daily.

Yeah stress will do it all right, so maybe identify and address the stress. Be aware that most guys go into a shell about their health issues and have a hard time addressing them, let alone being willing, or able to even communicate with a partner. Or the doctor, even if they go see one.

What is the nature of his stress, and do you have kids? How old are they, and what kind of work does he do, and do you work? Little things can add up, so my suggestion is being patient, and not be distracted by your own stress or fears.

When was his last checkup, as guys when they get to a certain age, and their youth is slipping away may well FREAK OUT! OOPS I mean get distracted by their own MORTALITY, and waning physical abilities. Some handle it better than others though but it does compound the stress of daily life they once ignored.

Women go through the same thing before we make this just a guy thing.