Question about modifying a visitation order?
Hi there. I have a question in regards to modifying a visitation order. My ex right now has reasonable and liberal visitation. He is an over the road truck driver and pops in and out of town whenever. He does give me notice but I have attempted many times to try to talk to him about coming to some type of arrangement for visitation. Now mind you we had a nasty break up and I have been more than generous in seeing his daughter. But I don't feel that it is fair that I feel like I'm living my life around him. He took her for Christmas weekend then it was 3 weeks before she saw him again. But it seems that every time we talk we end up arguing and it is never about our daughter, it's always about him! I didn't pick his job he did. When we were together he always managed to be home when he wanted to if there was something that he wanted to do. Now he says that he wants her 3 days, then I have her for 4 days and vice versa. I don't like that idea either. I just wish that we could come to some type of agreement without having to go through the courts, but I think that is my only option and I know that he will drag it out in court.
Am I being unreasonable or not? What should I do?