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  • Jul 22, 2009, 04:10 AM
    wogdog2000
    Don't know how to talk to girls
    I'm not sure how to talk to girls like on msn I don't have anything to talk about and I don't want to keep asking questions, it will get boring and also I don't know what attitude I am supposed to have around women.
  • Jul 22, 2009, 04:19 AM
    redhed35

    If you could say what age you are if would help give an answer to better suit your needs.

    Thank you.
  • Jul 22, 2009, 05:15 AM
    wogdog2000
    16 years old
  • Jul 22, 2009, 05:23 AM
    redhed35

    When your with your friends your 'you'.
    Girls are the same,I guess talking to someone who has similar interests,liking the same music or sport (yes,some girls like sports)..

    Be you.. you don't have to behave in a certain way,don't try to be funny if your not a funny person,it comes off wrong.dont be someone your not,its too hard to keep it up.
    If you find your asking a lot of questions and the other person is not,chances are they are not as interested as you are.

    Conversations are two way,as I said ,you could talk about concerts coming up,are they going ,are you going.
    But most of all.. be yourself.
  • Jul 22, 2009, 05:25 AM
    kctiger

    Good looks may get your noticed, but confidence gets you in the door. Simple process here. Being a guy, almost ANY girl will be attracted to a guy who is confident in himself. If you are a guy, follow my advice to getting yourself a "date" with a female you are attracted to:

    Walk up to them, BS with them and then ask for their number. Regardless of their answer, make sure you act like it didn't bother you at all. Their answer and their reaction should have ZERO effect on you one way or another. The key is to ensure that they know you can live with or without them! Maintain the attitude that you couldn't care less whether or not they gave their number to you... You make sure you keep it short and sweet, the less the better my friend!

    Confidence 101... for more tips, let me know, but I PROMISE you confidence is the key to dating, not being good looking. Girls want a guy who is confident of himself (not cocky) and isn't tripping over his own tongue around them. This is for ALL ages. Girls KNOW that for better or worse, a lot of guys are afraid of them. So, being the proactive guy who is confident and sure of himself, no matter the age, makes you look really good.

    Never fear rejection!!
  • Jul 22, 2009, 05:32 AM
    wogdog2000
    What's the AMHD crew and I don't get offended
  • Jul 22, 2009, 05:33 AM
    kctiger

    Ask Me Help Desk... and that bottom part is a joke and has nothing to do with what I post (usually).
  • Sep 10, 2009, 09:33 PM
    KillerInstinct

    Although I do it myself, you should always try to go out and actually talk in person rather than over msn. I have always stayed on msn for hours doing the same thing as you.

    But lately, I realized that in person, you can actually know how the person feels about you rather than having to guess. Live your life rather than sitting by the computer. Get to know these women in person, it'll do wonders.
  • Sep 11, 2009, 09:26 AM
    talaniman

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...ls-378881.html

    Read this.

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