How to deal with people that you don't feel respect you?
OKay, as some of you may know, I started at job at a coffee shop in October. Well, I'm having an issue with a couple of people that I work with. They've never actually outright done anything to me, but their patronizing demeanor really offends me. I try very hard to do well at work, Sometimes I still don't know everything that I have to do. But it seems like a couple of the people that I work with just hate me for absolutely no reason.
Anytime I ask a question, or try to make conversation when we're not busy, they're really short with me and they look at me like I'm an idiot, with that expression "why are you talking to me" or "god you're stupid."
I'm not saying I have the brightest moments, but I don't treat people like that either.
I'm feeling really self conscious about it.
I don't mind doing the things that I have to do when I'm working, that's why I get paid, but I'm not getting paid to be talked to like I'm an idiot. It's not like I expect to be lifelong friends with any of these people (some of whom are very nice) but I'd at least like to communicate with them cordially.
Sure, I'm the new person, And I don't know them all that well, but at the other jobs I've had I don't remember feeling so insecure.
I feel like I'm on the "Awkward" side of the social status.. . It's really irritationg me.
Is there something wrong with me? Or them? Ot is this just the stupid way of the world.
UGH!
How do I deal with this crap?