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  • Jan 26, 2012, 08:00 AM
    jyotiabhishek
    Hindu girl marrying Christian boy?
    I love a Christian boy who is already married but his wife and him both deserted each other and both are not happy with each other. We loved each other before his marriage but his parent forced him to marry a Christian but both are not blessed with happy married life. I am not a cause of their desertion. But his father do not want him to divorce her. His wife used to speak bad words to him and his parents which are really disgusting. And both do not like each other. Without getting divorce from her can we marry as per Hindu rites. I'm a Hindu. Will Hindu priest will allow us to get married
  • Jan 26, 2012, 08:07 AM
    smoothy
    Its not what your Hindu priest will or won't do. In most civilized countries what you are considering is called poligamy. And is against the law.
  • Jan 26, 2012, 08:41 AM
    JudyKayTee
    He's married - he cannot legally marry without a divorce.

    Smoothy is 100% correct.
  • Jan 26, 2012, 10:38 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    Unless the nation that you live in, allows multiple marriages, where you could be wife number two, no it is not allowed.

    The issue is also, of course you are part of the problem, if you knew him before, wanted to get married, have stayed in contact, you are most likely a big part of the problem.

    Also they should be trying to find a way to work things out, not find someone new.

    If you leave him alone, no contact, until he fixes the situation, he can divorce or make up with his current wife.

    If he has another wife, if they make up, would you stay married to him as a second wife ?
  • Mar 15, 2013, 05:46 AM
    smkanand
    Total mess, the boy can get arrested for a second marriage without divorce. I guess the boy don't have guts to marry you but you are ready to get fool. On the first hand he married someone else because of his fathers fear, now he can not divorce her again because of fear. Are you a complete idiot to love such coward and spin-less man? Plus he's using you, why should he marry you at all? He knows that you love him, your ready to marry him with he being divorced. You know what they call such? Wake up girl, don't be a keep.
  • Mar 15, 2013, 06:45 AM
    JudyKayTee
    What does "don't be a keep" mean?

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