She knows me very well and she likes my nature a lot. She also flirts with me. We know each other since 2 years. What exactly would she think?

I am a Boy

There is no possible way that anyone could know what she will think... we don't know her and we don't know you... this cannot be accurately answered.

I like a girl. The first and the only girl I have ever liked in my life. I know we cannot be together, because of family problems. I think she won't like me the way I like her. We are best friends though since last 2 yrs. Share everything with each other like best buddies. Our families won't allow us to get married. I am trying to get over her. But I want to tell her everything that is in my mind. At least I want her to know what she means to me, how important she is to me. No I don't want to force her. Just let her know everything from day one. I'm thinking of writing a mail to her. I can't say this to her in-person. I just want to end everythng on a good note.

My question is -

Do you think she will get me wrong or will she starting hating me?

Is e-mailing her wt I feel about her a good option?

Please help me.. especialy girls :(

I was a girl, over 50 years ago... now I'm an old lady. But I'll try.
I'm always in favor of saying how you feel. I'm not in favor of emailing my deepest, most sensitive and heartfelt thoughts. That should be on paper.
Sure, write to her. Write it over and over and sleep on it, maybe for days or even weeks, until it's really how you want it.
How can she be horrified by you feeling love? She may not be able to do anything about it, but she can treasure your letter forever.

How old are you both? If you have been good friend for a few years she likely sees you as a friend and her feelings may not be a intense as yours. So how old are you both so we can gauge the maturity level better for this first time love thing you find yourself in.

I'd take it slow, you will know when the right time is to take the next step. It may not be confessing your love, it may be some simple somewhat romantic gesture that makes her realize you like her. In other words I think it is more romantic to let things happen as they will.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

How old are you both? If you have been good friend for a few years she likely sees you as a friend and her feelings may not be a intense as yours. So how old are you both so we can gauge the maturity level better for this first time love thing you find yourself in.

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We both are 22. And I am not friend zoned

You need to talk, and then you need to become friends, NO, you do just tell someone you love them that you are not already close friends with.

The obstacles you face my friend, and they are many since your families are against this, can only be overcome by direct and honest conversation.

Only then can you know whether she feels the same and is willing to help you overcome the obstacles.