I'm a guy and never expect anything but a hi ya' been, and see ya around, from a chance meeting with an ex. Of course a lot depends on the relationship/married status at the time, but being friends with someone that dumped me, not going to happen. Roll in the hay for old times sake...MAYBE If we are both single.
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He started to make sexual advances toward me and I backed away. This is NOT what I expected.
Nor sure I fully understand what that means as many ex lovers greet with a hug or kiss, and there is nothing sexual about it. Some hate each other.
I really can't see just going in, without a conversation, straight to a sexual advance...in public? What am I missing? Regardless most adults can't be friends with exes and lovers just because of the baggage, and history.
Obviously he didn't want to be JUST friends without some extra benefit. Come on, do females actually think you can dump a guy, and then be friends years later? That's very unrealistic. You never know what a break up will do to people over time. Might be the point he was making to you or testing your intentions.
I hated it when I got dumped and they tried to make me a girlfriend, or some kind of emotional tampon. Haven't you ever read what I have been writing over the years to people who break up FR? If he had dumped YOU back in the day, would you be open to a meal between friends?
Love to hear what you think.