I found some evidence that my husband was cheating, I checked his phone to see and found 3 texts from this woman called Jessica I've never met her or heard of her so I knew she couldn't of just been a friend of my husbands I read the texts and they were dirty messages I felt so ashamed. We have 4 children, Oliver 11, Hollie 9, Ellie 4, Samuel 2. What shall I do? Shall I confront him?