Originally Posted by germangirl
:eek: Dear ya all
in need of some insight, here is the ordeal,
my ex and i were having a rough patch, problems irritations we decided to break up, yet couldnt break free from each other so we kept doing things couples do, nobody even knew we were broken up, i agree its stupid!
so in short we were a couple but technically broken up.... then all of a sudden he disappeared for a whole week leaving me thinking something bad happened so i was calling hospitals and all. Then he finally called me and said that something magical happened he moved in with some woman from his office (who was in a 4 year relationship and about to get married) he kept saying how in love he was and kept trying to tell me what was so damn great and was trying to let me in on the sexual details, i told him that i was revolted by this, then he replied by saying see you never listen... sjeeszz
i learned that they got engaged after 3 weeks, and moved in together, from time to time he calls me, and when i learned that he got engaged i asked him why he is so rushed he sorta admitted that they were expected to do so according to her family, and he coulnt back out of it bc he had made such a big show of their romance.
He keeps telling me how he wants to share his newly found love with me, :confused: i think it is really disgusting. if he feels bad he calls me, but i dont pick up, which offends him.
i heard stories about her before, he thought that she was short fat sloppy and boring, then he told me that he was surprised about them getting together and now he says that he always had a crush on her and she is all that i could never be but always wanted to be... i dont get this guy, my friends saw him a couple of times and said that he was acting in a almost manic manner really really cheerfull and kept saying how good life was and how happy he is. what do you all think?
and please dont say just stop thinking and move on, i need some answers....
love ya